My bf and I were arguing over the phone earlier and i didnt even do anything wrong it was all coming from him. At the end he said he didnt love me, didnt fancy me and didnt wana be with me! :(
I know hes been v stressed lately but thats still no excuse
And he also got an expensive graduation present from me this morning!
2006-10-14 08:43:23 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
we have been together for 5 years
2006-10-14 08:49:50 · update #1
Don't worry.... .... Listen, Learn, Live, and Laugh... who knows if tomorow never comes!!
Take Care
xxx
2006-10-14 08:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The following was sent to me several years ago and still helps me! It may help you too:
Things That Will Help Make You Feel Good! Think about them one at a time before going on to the next one. It does make you feel good, especially the thought at the end #45.
1. Falling in love.
2. Laughing so hard your face hurts.
3. A hot shower.
4. No lines at the supermarket.
5. A special glance.
6. Getting a card or letter in the mail
7. Taking a drive on a pretty road.
8. Hearing your favorite song on the radio.!
9. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside.
10. Hot towels fresh out of the dryer.
11. Chocolate milkshake (vanilla or strawberry).
12. A bubble bath.
13. Giggling
14. A good conversation.
15. The beach
16. Finding a 20 dollar bill in your coat from last winter.
17. Laughing at yourself.
18. Looking into someones eyes and knowing that they Love you
19. Midnight phone calls that last for hours.
20. Running through sprinklers.
21. Laughing for absolutely no reason at all.
22. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful.
23. Laughing at an inside joke
24. Friends.
25. Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you.
26. Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours left to sleep.
27. Your first kiss (either the very first or with a new partner).
28. Making new friends or spending time with old ones.
29 Playing with a new puppy or kitten.
30. Having someone play with your hair.
31. Sweet dreams.
32. Hot chocolate.
33. Road trips with friends.
34. Swinging on swings.
35. Making eye contact with a cute stranger.
36. Making chocolate chip cookies.
37. Having your friends send you homemade cookies.
38. Holding hands with someone you care about.
39. Running into an old friend and realizing that some things (good or bad) never change.
40 Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much desired present from you.
41. Watching the sunrise.
42. Getting out of bed every morning and being grateful for another beautiful day.
43. Knowing that somebody misses you.
44. Getting a hug from someone you care about deeply.
45. Knowing you've done the right thing, no matter what other people think.
2006-10-14 09:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him! u did nuthing wrong so dnt worry. if anything he's the 1 who shud b depressed on breakin up wif u. y not suggest going out with ya m8z 2 moz for some shopping or just 2 chat. n y not watch a gd comedi n best of all u now have an excuse 2 eat loadza choci *lol* dnt worry u will get over it. *smile tho ur heart is breakin* lol XxX
altho if the arguement wasn't incredibly serious little space wub 4 u both (like she said above)
hope everything works out ok 4 u both
2006-10-14 08:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by hellodobedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) don't worry to much, for sure if he's just graduated he's probably just stressed over the fact he doesn't know what's round the next corner. I find myself taking things out on the people closest me sometimes too. Give him a bit of space but let him know that you will always be a support for him. Just wait and see things will be back to normal before you know it.
2006-10-14 08:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by ed.knight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 09:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reconsider and re-evaluate why in the world you would want to even be with someone like that. Life is really short, I am sure you are a good person and you don't deserve it. Period.
Find someone new, who will treat you with respect and dignity.
That is what a "good" relationship stands for.
Good luck
2006-10-14 10:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kay M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time moping around for him. the world does not revolve around him and there is more to life than any man. go enjoy your life. you never know whats waiting for you. im speaking from experience. i was engaged 3 times im now happily married with a son. i work at a job i love (most of the time) and i have lots of friends. don't let him steal your joy. good luck
2006-10-14 08:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Diana K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he waited for his birthday present, and thinks you're coming on strong. I see he phoned you and it seems to me he's just making up excuses to get rid of you. If he was doing all the argueing it looks like he's trying to say goodbye if he didn't give any reasons. Let him go and good riddance. And don't lower yourself to taking him back, he sounds like a complete w.a.n.k.e.r. Look for a decent bloke and get rid.
2006-10-14 08:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact him or anything. Hopefully he will realise what he's done and apologise. If not, consider yourself well rid, and you are obviously a better person than he is. Hope you have agood night's sleep, I know it's not nice x x x :)
2006-10-14 08:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Twisty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your present back and f*** him off. I don't care if he's been stressed lately, whoopie doo. Don't we all feel like that sometimes? It's no reason to be so hurtful to you.
2006-10-14 08:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by jeeps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋