He checks my text messages and voicemails! He's so paranoid that he even tells me when my Dad calls! I'm not cheating! Sheesh! He knows every move I make, and I've told him that I am not hiding anything! HE DOES THIS EVERY DAY!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 08:16:40 · 15 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you need to be hit by a train to get your thinking processes going? A boyfriend who knows every move you make? And the burden is on you to assure this ape that you are not doing anything wrong? You are setting womanhood back a half dozen decades. This is not a boyfriend, he is a keeper of prey. Flash forward six months: This is an ugly, stupid picture and you are becoming another statistic.
2006-10-14 08:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you must feel insecure because of the ex. You even lost your virginity to this girl. First of all do you know the reason why she broke up with her ex? Is she involved with drugs too or not? It does not state if she was talking to her boyfriend or not that time you went to the bathroom. Why not tell her that you want to give yourself a break (relationship). I suggest you give yourself some personal and quality time alone for a liitle. You said that oyu used to have a girlfriend that was boring , that was the reason for the break up. Now it seem you have a girlfriend with all sorts of excitement and an ex too. You say that the guy is not interested in her now, but I would like to know who told you so. Yes this is true you may enjoy being with this girl but there is also baggage added too. Coincidentally she is going to Florida maybe it is true what she says', maybe not. Remember in life there are challenges. Being with someone in a relationship for a few months is not enough time to really get to know someone. Naturally you do not want to get hurt or pissed off as you say therefore give yourself some time away from her. Maybe she has a nice time with you due to her boyfriend being on drugs. Do not really know the reasons. You must think about yourself. By the way is her ex a heroin addict, if so I suggest you get testes for HIV. Not saying that you have it but because of the nature of her ex you would want to protect yourself. Listen, love yourself first and foremost. There are other fish in the sea without the drama and baggage.
2016-05-22 01:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's very controlling and this will most likely get worse. He needs help with feeling secure. You need some space. You should distance yourself from him and watch his reaction. You may need help getting out of this relationship even if you feel you don't want out. This controlling behavior can lead to beating and domestic violence further down the line. Think about it and try to see yourself as the outsider looking in, what do you see?
2006-10-14 08:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what's up, phones can be pretty private at times. I would never do that to a girl I knew. Not even as a joke. Tell him to back the f off or he'll regret it.
He's not your dad don't let him act like one. It's hard enough having one shi.
2006-10-14 08:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you but he definitely has problems. I would suggest that you dump him because this will only get worse as time goes along and it will be harder to get rid of him later. He definitely needs help with his self confidence and self image and believe me when I tell you that it isn't a problem that will go away nor is it a problem that you can fix for him. He needs professional help. Sorry, but I figured that you should hear it as it really is.
2006-10-16 02:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so wrong tell him to stop are he wont have to worry about your phone and who's calling because you will not be there anymore plain and simple put the lock code on your phone change the codes so he doesnt even know them lock it so he cant even get to anything on the phone
2006-10-14 08:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do the same thing with him to let him se how it feels , take his phone and check everything befor him, and if he still cant get it , tell him that this is annoying you so much , and that if hes afraid of losing you , hes about to because of what hes doing !
2006-10-14 08:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by DeMeNtEd AnGeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the phone or lose him. when you are going to be with him leave the phone somewhere else or off and if your calls are too important that you cant do that then get another boyfriend.
2006-10-14 08:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too controlling better get out before it gets worse.
2006-10-14 08:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he does not trust u and puts u in discomfort jus show him ur middle finger and find some one else...
2006-10-14 08:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by zombie... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋