We dated on and off for 9months. Then we got in a huge fight and I didn't talk to him for a month. We didn't talk for about two months. Then he kept telling me how much he missed me. I was playing hard to get and acting like i didn't miss him at all. Now he has a new gf, but he tells me he misses me a whole lot. What should I do to get him back? Please don't tell me how that is unfair to whom he is with right now.
I really miss him a lot more than I initially thought I did? We were chatting a whole lot, flirting on line recently and then he asked me if I was seeing some1. I said no and r u? he said yes but he misses me.
2006-10-14 07:59:27 · 6 answers · asked by optimistic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Beware because if he has someone new he might want to have you on the side. If you truly love him then sit down and tell him that you will try again, but he has to get rid of the other girl first. I don't think it is unfair to her because you had him first and if she had played her cards right then he would have no reason to miss you. As a woman who "tried again" with her ex over 5 different times, my advice is not to get too involved right away. Things have changed since you two broke up, so jumping back in where you left off could result in another breakup. Also think about why you two called it quits the first time, because I am sure that whatever issues you had before will still be there. These issues need to be dealt with before you jump back in, or it is right back to Splitsville. Whatever you decide to do just proceed with caution. Good luck!
2006-10-14 08:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day it is up to you two as to were you two want to go from there. If he misses you like he is saying, it is best to tell the new GF so as soon as possible, so that the hurt and pain will not be too much for her.
I don't like to hurt any ones feelings especially some one that cares about me and it is best he handle it delicately as some one Else's feelings are in the picture.
2006-10-14 15:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you start by telling how you feel. He obviously is not commited to the person he is with right now if he is constantly telling you how much he misses you!!
2006-10-14 15:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all he needs to break with his recent girlfriend, and then you guys need to get back with each other, but make sure it works out, or you're going to regret being with him again.
2006-10-14 15:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want your ex back, think of the reasons he became an ex...you really dont want to end up where you was.
2006-10-14 15:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bump him . Are you ready for an adult gentleman who is built for comfort and not for speed ?
2006-10-14 15:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by samssculptures 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋