First off I have been seeing this woman for a few months now, she is 3 years older than me im 27 she's 30. We have talked about the age gap and she likes the fact that I am younger and I feel the same about her. We both work alot but we try to see each other a few times during the week but lately she has been either changing plans at the last minute or blowing me off all together. I dont think shes cheating but I can only take so much. Ladies if you can please give me some insight as to what is happening on the other end I would appreciate it.
2006-10-14 07:55:18 · 20 answers · asked by eric k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should flat out ask her whats going on and tell her how you feel, girls love that. maybe she's just been especially busy and doesn't realize what she's doing
2006-10-14 08:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kristin C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't jump to conclusion sometimes things do come up and we (ladies) do have a change of plans every now and then. So don't take it personal. Besides she is 30 and should be out of the stages of playing little mind games I am pretty sure she would tell you if she just was not feeling the the situation anymore. So just be patient and considerate.
2006-10-14 14:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by britt7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age has anything to do with it, but it does seem like something is going on. Maybe she feels your not her type, 3 months is enough time to get to know someone. Maybe she just isn't feel'n you anymore. Best thing to do is ask her. You might be better off as friends. Good Luck!
2006-10-14 15:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is either losing interest or her work is very demanding. I would not even consider the age gap a factor if you can even call it that. Maybe if she was 18 and you were 15....
2006-10-14 14:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm younger than you, but this same thing just happened to me, so i'll tell what i think. i think she is just not interested in you anymore, or has another man. the latter happened to me and i found out from someone else. if i were you i would confront her about it casually, and see where it goes from there. and if it doesn't end up working out, there are other fish in the sea!
2006-10-14 15:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...She is either playing hard to get!And she wants u to do the running.Do you know where she is living?Maybe u could go over there with some flowers.or chocs whatever she prefers.Hope this helps. Good luck!
2006-10-14 15:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by lucyhot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. But my philosophy is to just ask her out straight. Then you'll know. Then accept her response for what it is. IT IS WHAT IT IS.
cheers darlin
2006-10-14 15:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not an age thing. She's just not that into you anymore. She's checkin' other guys out. Sorry.
2006-10-14 14:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jan O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel first off if you trust her then back off, but if you have aby worries over her actions then talk to her about it, but for me i will have to say is that maybe something changed in her schedule. but you will never know unless you talk to her
2006-10-14 15:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the age difference got to do with it?
2006-10-14 14:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Dntcrosthline 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋