2006-10-14 07:50:19 · 54 answers · asked by wildflower23000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered your own question. But, basically, you're the one who's in control. If you don't satisfy that male urge very quickly, you'll find out whether he's there just for sex or if he values you as a human being.
2006-10-14 07:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men lie because they've found it works - it gets you into bed. If you find they don't have the time for you afterward, it should be obvious to you that BED was the only reason for the chase. Are you a push-over? How many times must this happen before you learn to distinguish facts from fiction? Why not look and listen with different eyes and ears. Look beyond the sweet talk to see what kind of fellow this guy is in action and deeds, not just that he tells you how much he likes you, etc. Remember - actions speak louder than words.
2006-10-14 08:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by mama T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women fall for it every time? I'm not trying to be mean but this has gone on forever and you just keep letting us get away with it. Personally I have changed my life and don't want to have sex again until I am married. That is the way God intended for it to be. So when you don't do it God's way you are going to end up being hurt in the end. What you really need to do is tell a guy straight out that he isn't going to get it right away. If he splits right then, then you know he is a scum-bag. Make him work for it. I've met women that have had everything going for them, but they let me have it too quick and it turned me off. Sure we will take it but then there is nothing to work for after that. It's like going to the finest restaurant in New York and ordering a big piece of cake as soon as you sit down. Now you don't want your dinner. By making us wait for it, we will unknowingly get to know you... like you...respect you... and fall in love with you. Don't be superficial and just go for the guys with the cars, money, or looks. If that is all you want in a guy, then that is just as bad as him only wanting what you can give him in bed. Women should be treasured. And every treasure that has ever been found is precious because it had to be discovered. Diamonds are not found just laying on the street.
2006-10-14 08:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because at that time the guy is only satisfying his own needs and not looking at the girl as a person.
A guy I used to know seduced women purely for the thrill of the hunt. Victory was getting them into bed, the sex was secondary. His complaint was "...they always have a story to tell." In other words, the girl was an objective, not a person.
2006-10-14 08:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by 13caesars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u just answered your own question!! but the brushing aside part. Well maybe cuz they want it and then when they get it well they accomplished what they wanted! Now if you make a guy wait then you will either see how desperate he was to get it or how much he really does like you.
2006-10-14 07:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by momo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All men are not alike. That's partly true. When I was coming from Vietnam in 1966, I saw this beautiful young girl, and the our eyes met!! Within 2 months we got married, and going on 40 years!
2006-10-14 07:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by alfonso 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women are the weaker sex. If you know that then dont be so ready to give it up. Change the way you think and men have no choice but to change the way they act.... but thats not gonna happen any time soon.
Paris Hilton, Nicole.....
Why do women get burned because they get played and feel the need to ***** about it on the internet like someone really cares?
2006-10-14 07:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by WANTED 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not our fault, it's da pickle. Your brain is like, "Damn I shouldn't do this", and then Mr. Winky takes over. For those hours before getting to bed I think I really have strong feelings, but a few minutes later I find out I was mistaken. Oh well, but hey I liked your question. It was well written and your obviously a very intelligent women. Maybe we could do something this weekend.
:-)
2006-10-14 07:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by neptune032701 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So sorry that this has happened to you. Not all men are like that. My wife and I waited until we were married to begin a sexual relationship, and we have the most amazing relationship now. I hope that you find a man who will honor and treasure you as a woman should be honored and treasured!
2006-10-14 07:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both Men and Women do the same thing to each other. A person just have to be aware of those things and be prudent about situations he/ she find themselves into.
2006-10-14 07:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Premio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋