he has hidden from me a lo of times when he went out with his friends
2006-10-14 07:47:08 · 16 answers · asked by innbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound clingy and insecure.
Get out and make some friends of your own to hang out with. Or get involved in volunteering or something to occupy some of your time.
Most men will eventually get tired of a weak, clingy, insecure woman.
Good luck.
2006-10-14 07:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be miserable in a relationship? If the spark isn't there anymore, why must you suffer? If you want to try to work it out, talk about it, or figure out different possibilities. But if it's not there, don't go through the hell. The longer you wait, the worse it'll be in the end. Unfortunately, most relationships that are long term like yours, "just being friends" doesn't always work. happy hunting
2006-10-14 07:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by scarsoflife8282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is any relationship that is gonna last THRIVES on COMMUNICATION. you absolutely MUST communicate with him....and get him to talk back with you. if he refuses to talk to you, or open up....then that is not going to work. it sounds like you have a long time and lots of energy devoted and invested into this relationship. do you love him? if you do, understand that you cannot make people behave in ways that you need them to.....the only person who you can control and change is you.
try to get the boy to talk. dont attack him....be open hearted and truly ready to hear his side of things. i have a feeling that if he knows how much you truly care, he will open up to you.
also....a couple other people here said that he has another woman or something. i would not assume that if i were you....i dont think that now is the time to be assuming things...it will just mess with your head if you do.
talk, talk , talk.......and LISTEN....that is even more important. not just with your ears, but with your head and HEART.
you will know what to do.
2006-10-14 07:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by echolily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reciprocate, that too in the same manner its serious believe me that will have after effects its the right time to react, dont delay make urself important ignore him likewise avoid him likewise and show that, be casual with him or atleast pretend to be.
take my words all will be fine in a couple of weeks
2006-10-14 07:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by raunak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. If he is hiding from you he does NOT respect you. Everyone deserves respect. He is laughing about you with his friends. Believe me... I've been there. He probably only tells you he loves you so you'll have sex with him. There are a lot of good guys out there. Find one who wants to be with you.
2006-10-14 07:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me he must have something to hide,your going out 3years and he is keeping somethings like that from you something not right..
2006-10-14 07:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by pa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ever makes you feel bad dump him on the spot, if he really loved you he wouldn't be afraid to show it.
if you don't like him anymore why are you still with him?
2006-10-14 07:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by bex d. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you hav talk vd him,actually u r too inocent so its geting easy 4 him lie ,so talk n then deside,b4 geting too late u break up.
2006-10-14 18:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by d_patrakar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about want is bothering you.
talk honest with him
TK
2006-10-14 07:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call from local booth and say that where are you by changing your voice like his friend and you will know it
2006-10-14 17:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by MR.COLD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋