it seems like i can praise my g/f night and day about how hot she is, and only mention her increasing thigh cellulite once a month, and she yells at me randomly days later and cries. I only mention it when she points it out herself. Am i suppose to lie and say, no you don't have "cottage cheese" when she obviously does. Will lieing to her and saying she looks fine really help her get rid of it? I want to help solve her problem, not make it worse by denying the truth.
2006-10-14 07:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by thedawn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya know.
They say they want the truth. But they CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!
2006-10-14 07:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The female ego is a delicate thing, and any negative comment (whether provoked or not) can be quite damaging. No matter how hot a girl is there is always something about herself that she doesn't like. By her pointing it out to you she is wanting you to reassure her that the way she sees herself is not how you see her. When she asks you, just say something like "Baby you are so hot it doesn't even matter" I know it sounds cheesy, but I have never met a woman yet who didn't love getting a compliment. Although you may compliment her quite often, when she points out her "cottage cheese" her self esteem is quite low and it is your job as the man in her life to reassure her that she looks perfect... even if it is a white lie. Trust me, she will appreciate the fact that you think she is gorgeous, even if she doesn't think so herself. Good Luck!
2006-10-14 14:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ARRRRRRRRR!! ye nar b' gettin' any medal's f' bein' a smart one thar b' th' thuth...........
She nar b' askin' for the truth on iffin her thighs be havin' increased dimplige. She already know the answer to that
"sheeeeeeee b' a lookin' to it!.".....
what she really be askin' if you are going
t' b' loven' her inspite of .......
and ye need to be tellin' her ye be
tellin' her ye' still b' lovin her cute little thigh's when ye b' "64",.
iffin' ye be smoochin' an' a snugglin' her as ye b' sayin' it!
Another lil tip.........and he will be "yelled at free for the rest of eternate....
.......Say it in baby talk!!............
It nar b' a lie's .....just her needed reasurance she b' still special, sexy..........an' ye be willin' to give her that special lift of
knowin' she b' havin' a special kind of guy!
Come on you know the first time ye said it that it would not motivate her...........and only cause her hurt feeling's.......
Nar what iff'n when ye b' askin her if was "really good for her" and she b' talkin' "well what is she going to say" "yeah, the first two minuets was alright..........but those last two was a lil limp!
Would thar be a man th' could be handlin' iffin' he be told every thruth...........no matter the size?
2006-10-14 15:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you never tell a girl she's hot when your with her....you should tell her how beautiful she is and how glad you are to have her in your life....and when she says she's fat or her leg cellulite is increasing you should disagree with her and tell her no matter what she is beautiful through thick and thin
2006-10-14 14:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Alisa B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your girlfriend is just looking for your attention and when you tell her that she has cellulite legs thats a big no no for you. if you want to be happy just tell her the truth but in a way that make her feel ok but still want to change.
2006-10-14 14:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Raven24k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her in a nice way like honey i think you might have gained a few pounds, i mean girls are always sensitive about their weight because of you guys. We look good for you and it makes us feel good to!
2006-10-14 14:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by slai171 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls don't like when u piont bad things abt them out, and like 2 be complimented. Just say she looks ok, and she'll probably deal with it herself. ( coming from a girl, we know what looks bad abt ourselves, and put ourselves down enough abt it, and try 2 fix it, so plz say she looksok and let her deal with it)
2006-10-14 14:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Instead of answering...ask her what she thinks and say "Honey, I think you look fine...but if you aren't happy with yourself, you can do something about it..."
That way, it is on her and not on you. If she is unhappy with herself she will change it. If you are unhappy being with her because of that, then break up with her because you are shallow.
2006-10-14 14:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋