I met a woman online who's 12 years older than me......?

Question

We wanted to meet up but never did. We just couldn't find the time and she was ALWAYS busy. She also was on the bridge of already moving to the other side of the country. She was just like "I got to get out of here". She said something or someone was bothering her at her job, but she never went into details of what it was or who it was and why she HAD to go to California when she was in Massachusetts?

She did seem interested in getting to know more about me though, and I was too because she seemed confident and had this older woman sex appeal happening, but what do you make of her and from the sounds of it do you think I was in the right for not going through with meeting her one time before she went away?

It's just something kept me from meeting her. I also heard that my friend had bad vibes too. I wanted to go for it, but she moved and one time we were supposed to meet but it just didn't work out as planned and I could tell she wasn't happy.

Did I blow any?

Answer 1

The fact that she says "I got to get out of here" tells me that she is not handling her problems. Running away doesn't help either. I say stay away, she obviously has some growing up to do regardless of her chronological age.

Answer 2

She was afraid that something serious would develop between you two. I don't think she was thrilled about you, because you are so much younger.... move on... don't think about her anymore.
I was with someone three years younger than me ... and I didn't feel good about it. I felt like he could have been my younger brother.... It was flattering that someone younger would fall for me (him 22... me 25), but I felt awkward about the whole situation.

Answer 3

you made your decision good or bad .now move on plenty of women out there for you to choose

Answer 4

Take it from me, dont do the online dating!!!!