i told my girl that we should have sex but she didnt,i asked her to hug me but she did.what does she think that she dont want me to have sex with her and what shold i do to win her heart.
2006-10-14 07:24:22 · 15 answers · asked by Professor okunlola olusoji 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be yourself to win her heart no bullshit,..straight out truth is the key. It also depends on long you two have been together. If it has been for more than 2 months you guys need to talk. Other than that maybe she needs time to feel comfortable with you to do it with you. It is that plain and simple.
cheers
2006-10-14 07:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she's just not ready for sex yet. She obviously likes you, she wants hugs, which is a good thing. The worst thing you could do is pressure her, just reassure her sex is not the most important thing, which it isn't and build a loving passionate relationship first. Nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-14 15:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may want to wait until you two are married; next time she has a really bad day at work, give her a back rub, and then cook something she loves, (even if your not the best of cooks she'll appreciate it she won't have to cook!) then go into the bathroom and draw up a warm bath and light some candles, then (when she gets out) ask her if she feels better. That may help alot. good luck. Need more ideas? e-mail me at lill_angel_07_88@yahoo.com
2006-10-14 14:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by lill_angel_07_88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure that you both are ready for the responsibility of having sex which includes an unforeseen pregnancy.
Girls do not want to be pushed or pressured into this kind of decision. So just be patient and if it is supposed to happen it will, in time
2006-10-14 14:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see, that's the whole problem, if you go after sex, means you're being selfish. love means getting to know the other's heart, sex is a part of love. you can have as much sex as you will ever want but you need to be in love. & to be in love you have to forget about sex. such an irony. but believe me it works. you get so emotionally attached to the girl you love, she will do the same, then you won't have to ask her, she will herself beg you for it. see, when you ask her to hug you, she readily agreed as she considers it (hugging) a physical expression of love. go slow, it is the surest way to a everlasting relationship
2006-10-14 14:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by karan s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build up her trust by showing her a good time and act like you aren't just in it for the sex. Then after you've developed things a bit, she will likely be more approachable and open to ideas you may want to impose upon her.
2006-10-14 14:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must be missing something...You can't understand that she doesn't want to have sex but she'll give you a hug? Um...a hug is much different that having sex.
Just because you "win her heart" doesn't mean she'll give up her panties. Sex is a huge responsibility. "What if..." she got pregnant. Some girls realize that risk and don't want to chance it.
2006-10-14 14:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like her heart is what you want to win! give her hugs, go home and take the trouser trout for a walk. Stop pushing her or you'll never git any!
2006-10-14 14:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she doesn't want to have sex now doesn't mean that she doesn't want to do it with you. she could just be waiting for marriage or the rite time. she could not be ready to lose her virginity at this point in time. well you can think f it one good way, when she isn't with you you know she's not sleeping sound on you.!! be happy that you have a good girl. just give her time
2006-10-14 14:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been seeing her? Maybe she is waiting for marriage. Ask her. Communication is very important with a relationship, no matter if you are girlfriend/boyfriend or just friends.
2006-10-14 14:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by lilome_56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋