There is this guy at school who is one of my classes (we are 15) and well he shows some interest into me but theres one problem this girl also likes him and she is in the same class.Now this guy doesnt know i like him cause i wanted to wait till i got to know him better cause ppl say the longer you wait the better relationship your going to have?.But yesterday the girl that also likes him kissed him right infront of me and it really hurt,they arnt going out yet and his birthday is just around the corner and i wanted to ask him to a dinner and movie but since i saw him with another girl i feel like there is no point. Should i just give up or continue to fight over a guy with this other girl?
2006-10-14 07:18:10 · 7 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him. They aren't exclusive. They aren't married. Don't let her loose actions stop you or discourage you.....that's probably her full intent! Show her who's the WOMAN. Ignore her actions and ask him. Doesn't mean he won't be interested in YOU! How will you know if you give up like a li'l weeniegurl? Don't be a weeniegurl! Be tough, be strong and GO AFTER what you want! There IS a POINT! GO GIT HIM GIRL!
2006-10-14 07:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my best advice, based on personal experience. DOn't give up just yet. I was in a similar situation, where I was the guy you are talking about. There was a girl that I knew liked me (the equivalent of you in this situation) but for reasons too complex to get into, I didn't think I could date her. I took another girl to prom last year ( the equivalent to the other girl in your class) but I still liked the girl I couldn't date. And for the rest of the year, and over the summer, she didn't give up on me. Now, circumstances changed, and I got to ask out the girl I liked. We have been happily dating for about a month now. So don't give up just yet. If my girlfriend had given up on me, we wouldn't be dating now. Best of luck to you!
2006-10-14 14:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by feral_black_gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.
dont back down.
dont let that other girl get in yor way.
she prolly knows you like him and thats why shes doing it.
talk to him more often.
tell him that you like him.
and
then ask him if he wants to go do something.
DO NOT wait.
that other girl will already get him from you if you just sit there and wait.
dont watch her take your man.
do something about it.
goodness girl.
i hope you get him before she does.
just flirt more, talk more, and do whatever else you have to.
if you dont want to tell him how you feel in person.
a nice note would do.
or an email.
or even a phone call.
you have to tell him some way though...
:] good luck!
2006-10-14 14:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by whitney t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.show an intrest in him.still ask him out then at least he knows u like him, play it cool:~) That girl is trying to hurt u. dont get jealous, as guys dont like jealous girls anyway. hope that helps.
2006-10-14 14:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by lucyhot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him how you feel; I know you probably don't want to hear that but it's the truth, you'll never know if you don't ask.
2006-10-14 14:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out!!! then go to the movie and to dinner as your 1st date
2006-10-14 14:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok
2006-10-14 14:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋