it . She got back after 1 1/2 yrs and expressed interest and asked casually for a photograph .She herself being pretty.
i mailed her to call up or i would call her and in an e mail reply on sun she said she would call on monday and pointed out my photo wasnt there . As gallantry demanded i messaged her on mon but she smsd she was busy and we could
talk on tues and again pointed out that my photo wasn't there .
i said we would talk on tues and did not comment on the photo
since I still was trying to know the person . in matrimony profiles and backgrounds matter as much as mere photos in my opinion . I am good looking but some one who is genuinely interested shouldnt mind talking first i thought . Next day when I called she did not pick up the mobile .All this after a 1 1/2 year old reply .I didnt call her after that for 2 months now nor has she. SPECIFIC QUESTION would a person genuinely interested in matrimony behave as such?
2006-10-14 06:50:39 · 5 answers · asked by kalki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A person genuinely interested in matrimony would not behave this way...but your whole story seems strange to me. WHY would you bother with someone with whom you've had no contact for 1 1/2 years? ..and WHY would you be interested in marriage to someone you don't know??
She didn't pick up the mobile, which tells me she was using a cellphone. So, you don't even have a home phone number. Constantly, she was mentioning your photograph and the fact you didn't have one posted. She's interested in looks rather than what could be offered, but I will admit that there has to be some sort of physical attraction to perhaps start a spark. Looks aren't the most important thing. There can be a very interesting story between the front and back cover of a book. A lot of people fail to realise this. A good looking person on the outside, can be very unattractive on the inside.
My advice to you would be to move on..and meet some girls "live'....at least you can sit and have dinner or enjoy a movie together. This online stuff is all well and good, and not many of the online relationships work out very well. Some do, some don't. The key wording there is 'not many'.
Hope I have been of some help..and good luck!!!
2006-10-14 06:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a person genuinely interested in matrimony for the sake of matrimony wouldn't behave that way. However, a person interested in seeing what sort of relationship she was getting into might. She gave you a request and you failed to honor it. She may have thought that if you don't honor a request before marriage, you won't after marriage either and just decided not to continue talking to you.
2006-10-14 06:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if she replied after 1.5 years I would leave her alone. I mean once I had someone reply to me after about 5 months and I tried to talk to her then she turned out to be someone I shouldn't have responded to. I really think she has some alternative motives behind this. I would not speak with her. That is my advice to you. I hope this goes well.
2006-10-14 06:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by PAboy05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah!!! She just wants to be sure you look normal. That's just evolution! Part of mating in any species is Physical attraction. You need the physical, mental, and emotional to factors to complete a harmonious relationship.
2006-10-14 08:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by professorpippyppoopypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know what she looks like, so either send her a photo or she will think you look like a toad and blow you off.
2006-10-14 06:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋