I've had a crush on this guy for a bit(about 4 months?)I loved how he's girly & cute and not afraid to express himself.A lot of ppl think he's gay but I know for a FACT that he likes girls (he's been in love with this one girl from middle school.He recently got over her)
Recently we had a conversation.He says that sometimes he wishes he was a girl & he acts girly because he wants to be cute.He would like to shave his legs and even wear dresses.That kind of creeped me out a bit.
A few days later he asked me out and I said yes to not hurt his feelings & I admit I do like him a lot despite all the weirdness going on.
Since we've been bf/gf, he's been acting a LOT more girly around me.His voice gets higher.he whimpers a lot when he wants something & he's constantly asking me for kisses.I find all of that very annoying.Sometimes I hesitate to kiss him cause it feels like kissing a girl. What is going on? How do I talk 2 him about it without hurting him? I want him 2 b more masculine!
2006-10-14 06:39:02 · 8 answers · asked by sarah c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he might be gender confused at present. Be honest and open with him about how he makes you feel and perhaps even ask if he has tendencies for same sex relationships. Asking and explaining your emotions are the only way you'll ever get to the bottom of this. Best of luck to both of you.
2006-10-14 06:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, no female, you're no longer loopy, you're human. Age has no longer something to do such as your subject between you and your boyfriend, attitude has each little thing to do with it. If he's at a place in existence the place he has sewn his wild oats and needs to settle down and nest, fall into that dreaded worldwide of grown up accountability and monotony- and you're nevertheless feeling such as you have lots to journey, which you're no longer waiting to embody all that "adulthood" includes, then you definately and he are in very diverse headspaces. oftentimes human beings say "My relationship did no longer artwork because of fact he become 40 and that i become 20." properly lower back, no remember what age they are, the ameliorations in existence desires make it perplexing to accomodate one yet another. maybe the older occasion is seeking a clean sense of order and peace, a quietness that incorporates secure practices and the reliability of that. A youthful occasion might nevertheless be sorting out the water on all facets of the pool, searching for the main tender spot. sometimes, that is vice versa. i've got properly-known some young ones who graduated, have been given married and in the present day settled into kin existence... and that i understand a few 50 300 and sixty 5 days olds which could no longer shop nevertheless, they drink and cuss like sailors and everywhere they pass, a occasion follows. you notice, neither of those are incorrect. The question is: What makes you satisfied? Re: Going to AA- astonishing and congrats on persuing your total happiness and wellbeing.
2016-10-19 09:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not going to get any more masculine this is who he is. you cant change that. what i would do is break up with him and just be friends because this guy is either gay or bi, or he just wants to be a girl.
i knew this guy that use to dress up like a girl and he said he wasnt gay at all well years later he finally came out and admitted he was gay he was just to embarrased to let anyone know.
2006-10-14 06:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by hurricane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him like you would a girl friend. It's either your sanity or his and since it looks like his is slipping away, there's not much of a choice to make. When he gets older, he may want a gender reassignment or something. Be supportive, but don't bend over backwards to accomodate him. Good luck.
2006-10-14 06:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel him that your not going to date a girl and you stil love him dont be afrid to bring up things that could end up in a bad part of life, its sad that he thinks that but to be more manly u start acting more manyl not ichy ur crotch ewww, but movies, carss, ideads, just act a littel tuffer around him then see how he reacts.
2006-10-14 06:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Booboo B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like u got a pussy for a bf u should dump him and get a real man tht will treat u like a woman not a best friend
2006-10-14 06:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nagasaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what u fell and think..be honest..!
2006-10-14 06:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM. TELL HIM THAT GIRLS DON'T LIKE GUYS THAT ACT...WELL LIKE GIRLS. BE HONEST!
2006-10-14 06:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋