We wanted to meet up but never did. We just couldn't find the time and she was ALWAYS busy. She also was on the bridge of already moving to the other side of the country. She was just like "I got to get out of here". She said something or someone was bothering her at her job, but she never went into details of what it was or who it was and why she HAD to go to California when she was in Massachusetts?
She did seem interested in getting to know more about me though, and I was too because she seemed confident and had this older woman sex appeal happening, but what do you make of her and from the sounds of it do you think I was in the right for not going through with meeting her one time before she went away?
2006-10-14 06:36:09 · 7 answers · asked by axelf57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she is getting out of a bad relationship and making a break for it.
It sounds like she found you appealing, but also realized she wasn't ready to jump into anything new, either. Moving is tough and she needs to get settled and sort out her feelings so you should just let it be for now.
2006-10-14 06:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you never met her face to face it sounds like that is the way you should keep it. From how you said she hedged on meeting with you, and like "she had to get away" did not sound very mature to me. I really understand the appeal of an older mate, so to speak, but you really sounded much more grounded to me. It all worked out for the best for you this time
2006-10-14 06:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You did the right thing. One of the many mistakes happening in the relationship is not respecting his or her private life.
Sorry that she had to go... but I wish you good luck with that woman. As long as she is willing to talk to you, ask her "how you feel". Asking "how she feels" works like a smart bomb on the relationship. It is because the women are naturally "feeling" orientied, verses guys are for "seeing". ex) guys get sexually aroused by seeing exposure of body parts.
2006-10-14 07:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by davegesprek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and meet with her. Can't hurt anything and might turn out to be a VERY fond memory in your life. After that, you never know what might happen. LIfe is good. Drink it up.
2006-10-14 06:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had no purpose of assembly you and she or he in all probability did no longer pass away...that develop into her excuse to "unload" you on line. you in all probability started coming off as too needy and clingy and she or he ran. She develop into somewhat no longer attracted to a real existence relationship. do no longer youngster your self. She in all probability advised you maximum of lies it develop into ridiculous besides. have you ever no longer HEARD how human beings "function" on line?
2016-12-08 14:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she moved then is she ever coming back? If not you should just move on.
2006-10-14 06:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did good.
2006-10-14 07:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by lucille692003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋