Girls I need your help. I think have found my soul mate. I have never felt so strongly about the first girl I have fell in love with. May be if I put it in my own words may be you will understand. There is nothing I would not do for her I would kill for her I would die for her I know that seems mad but that is how much I love her. But she is with somone els and if she is truly happy with that person who am I to stand in the way. My question is how do I overcome such a powerful bond I have for her.
2006-10-14 06:30:07 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the drama is in overdrive, isn't it?
You are attracted to her, you don't love her because it sounds like you don't know her. You can't help who you are attracted to and sometimes that feeling can be overwhelming. Try and find something else to occupy your day so you aren't thinking about her all the time.
2006-10-14 06:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly happy and you love her as much as you seem to then let her be happy and try to move on, be there as her friend, there will never be a better friend to her then you and try to see what qualitites she has that you love so much and see if you can find them in someone else, but KEEP BUSY, I know how you feel personally and pining for someone else can make you do crazy things that nobody can get over!
2006-10-14 13:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know how the poem goes
If you Love something, set it free
Maybe thats how you need to think about it. I know it's hard but your going to have to try to get your mind on other things and keep yourself busy so you don't dwell too much on it. Time does heal a broken heart. Been there. Good Luck
2006-10-14 13:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but you can't overcome this, you are in love and we always remember the people we truly love, you can just find new love but it will take time, you know!?
2006-10-14 13:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold Turkey
if you truly don't think you stand a chance, stay away before this takes over your life-
Hobby, job, new girl, etc
2006-10-14 13:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by allme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your love as her friend. You can still do everything for her, just don't overstep your bounds as a matter of respect. You do need to go out and meet people. And who knows, maybe she will realize what she's missing out on... I think that's usually how it happens.
2006-10-14 13:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to the girl and become a real friend.because then you'll know her opinion abt the guy she's with.you might find out that she's not really your soul mate or she could fall for you.the possibilities are endless.
2006-10-14 13:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Nouni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do if she is with someone else.. You need to move on and find someone who loves you equally.. Right now inspite of you loving this girl alot you can't be with her..
2006-10-14 13:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and meet other people, then you will see other people who could be better. Go hang out more and you will eventually forget about her.
2006-10-14 13:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn that bond into an even stronger friendship.
2006-10-14 13:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋