he said he'd stay with me even if i cheated on him. i dont know how it happened. it was with my exboyfriend. if he'd stay with me no matter what, why shoud i tell him? i love him, and i dont want to hurt him,andthis would hurt him. pleae dont tell me im a terrible person. he's cheated on me too. and dont say we dont have a good realtionship. because we do. we just dont get the chance to see each other often.
2006-10-14 06:29:22 · 14 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, hon, you've told us what you don't want to hear, now be a good girl and tell us EXACTLY what it is you WANT to hear, so we can move on.
2006-10-14 06:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Raptor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want a question answered you shouldn't be telling people what not to say if you want a honest answer, first off how old are you if your under the age of 24 i think you shouldn't be in a commitment with anybody I'm not saying to be alone but have fun you can have sex but why commit and if you tell the guy up front I'm sure he will be OK with that. then nobody. will get hurt. good luck PS your boyfriend is a desperate loser if he told you ahead of time that if you cheat on him he would stay with you, if my wife cheated on me i would be gone
2006-10-14 06:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by whynot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love each other you wouldnt cheat on each other.. If you plan to keep cheating then i would tell him you are seeing someone else. If it was a one time thing and you are not going to do it again, keep your mouth shut and dont tell him. But dont be mad at him for doing it to you if you are going to do it to him.. I cant see it being a good relationship with this going on. obviously there are some problems.
2006-10-14 06:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't need to know, just don't do it again! If he does find out, tell him the only reason you didn't confess was to prevent him from being hurt, and that you resolved never to do it again... and hopefully you won't have. If the urge comes up again... you might ask yourself, why are you with him, if you are just gonna keep cheating on him.
2006-10-14 06:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right, how do you know he cheated on you?
It would be better if you told him, then if he found it out himself, but then why would he even make a statement about staying with you even if you cheated on him, if he didn't already suspect it?
2006-10-14 06:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by shorthorserider 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you both cheat and your honest with each other about it and as you say you have a good relationship, then is it really cheating.
2006-10-14 06:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheat is the badest thing in the work..
just feelings....
never things still as it forever...
that`s what a life taught me in my life...
and this what i knew and felt...
when i searched about the faces around me,...
i and didn`t find any of those who i knew ...
searched about the faces which i loved...
searched about the faces whom i thought that they loved me..
but didn`t find that whom i loved or at least thought that...
every thing never to be and to still as it...
even a human kind too...
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yours
hazem
2006-10-14 06:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by ahazem02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good relatiomship then you wouldn't even be tempted to cheat.
2006-10-14 06:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him. I don't think you realise how devastating telling him would be. Keep away from other guys and concentrate on him.
2006-10-14 06:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other, don't cheat with each other.
2006-10-14 06:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋