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well I saw this girl 22 yrs age and beautiful unattached unmarried?
I am 34 unattached unmarried . She took an instant liking for me since I look young but we did not converse a word .This happened twice at a family friend get together.I also liked her but what about the age gap??? probably she thinks i am 27-28 probably.
Would it be wise to proceed ...... we are both in the same profession ....I know she doesn't (probably)

we belong to the same community
i never had an affair and nor must have she .

2006-10-14 06:24:14 · 11 answers · asked by kalki 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

Age does not matter. Generally women like their men to be older because then they think they are more mature. True love does not have any barriers.

You are lucky cause she is also in the same profession and so you will have something to start a conversation.

Hope your love succeeds and good luck

2006-10-14 06:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0 0

If you initiate a conversation with her, you should be open with her from the beginning about the age difference and, if it comes to that point, the complications that it could bring into a relationship. Personally, I believe that age should not be the determining factor when one is picking a partner. Having said this, even when people seem to have a great connection, the experience level and different stages of life that come with a large age gap can prevent a couple from being able to fully connect and/or appreciate one another. While it completely varies by person, a 22 year-old is typically not looking for the same things as a 34 year-old.
My advice is if you're really interested in her (more than just attracted physically), than you should go for it. Just make sure your expectations aren't unreasonably high.

2006-10-14 13:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 1 · 0 0

Just approach her already and start a conversation! She's an adult and unattached and so are you. What's most important is that she reciprocates your feelings, not the age gap. If it doesn't bother you or her, no one else's opinion matters. Good luck!

2006-10-14 13:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jemma 2 · 0 0

Talk to her. Get to know her better. Make conversations and maybe be like, "So do you think you would ever date and man who has a big difference in age than you?" or "What age groups do you like to date?" or "What are you interested in?"

Anyhow, good luck!

2006-10-14 13:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0 0

You are making a lot of assumptions, first, that she liked you--how do you know if you didn't talk? You also assume that she thinks you are younger, so, again, you don't know. Talk to her. Sounds promising, but you won't know until you have a conversation.

2006-10-14 13:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just ask her out, im sure on the first date it will come out that you are older than her. If she has a problem with the age difference she will tell you.

2006-10-14 13:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0 0

it might work. I'm 7yrs younger than my husband and we are still together in love and have 2 beautiful children. hes 31 I'm only 23.
we have been together for 7yrs.

2006-10-14 13:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell mommie 1 · 0 0

Pa says that since you like yer cuzin at yoa family gathering you need to make yer move or else someone else. My pa was 16 more years then my Ma and that didnt stop him He just hump her and then I was born and then they got hitched that how ya doo it..get her expectin' then you hitch her

2006-10-14 13:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

go for her man.if she really likes you she will not care how old you are.she will only care to be with you all the time.and if she's really serious and you are really serios you could get married.

2006-10-14 13:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Nouni 3 · 0 0

Love has no age boundry.

2006-10-14 13:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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