is it fair for people to be made fun of because the way they look?

Question

I am a big woman and have been big my whole life and it is not getting any easier to live in the world today. So if anyone has any suggestions please let me know

Answer 1

if you have shocking abilties,
noone will laugh only for your look..

Answer 2

Just be yourself and the hell with what others think. Being a big person certainly does not take away from your charm, wisdom or self respect. I am physically challenged and like yourself have been the object of many a joke and finger pointing. But we learn to deal with others objecting to how we are different and create our own path. I have many friends who after knowing me for a while forget the fact that I am challenged and take me for who I am. I love old people and kids as they will say exactly what is on their mind and ask whatever question they have of you. Be proud of who you are and show the world that just because your a different structure then the rest of them that this quality is a good thing and that you are at ease with who you are. Belief in yourself and all will be good.

Answer 3

hell no its not fair. unfortunately, though, that is how our society is. when i was growing up, and even still today, i always try to make friends with those who seem to get mentally beat up a lot. I learn so much from people, who some people wouldn't even bother talking to. its pretty sad how it is, and quite disheartening. as for suggestions, i say just offer the world everything you have. im sure you are better than me at at least 10 different things. everyone is beautiful in their own way. just find your way and let the world see your beauty. there will always be those out there who try to beat you down. but misery loves company, so how happy are they really? be yourself and do the da mn thing. don't worry about the negative people. peace

Answer 4

It's not fair to be made fun of but there are a lot of assholes in the world so its not gonna change. You just have to make yourself feel good for who you are. I know its hard and im sure you've heard this before. But if your sick of being made fun of, maybe you should do something about it. You need to contact a professional who can help you with your wieght.

Answer 5

some people dont notice what it is that they are saying. I would not pay any attention to them. I know not everybody is like this but if it helps listen to this:
I was at a doctors office one day and a rather large lady came up to me, "your very small, very pretty. Remember to love life okay?" she said.
I said "I promise I will." Then as she turned to run away i said " Well why do you say Im pretty, Im no better then you. You are beautiful!"

I know you probably hear this alot, its on the inside that counts. Well, its the truth! If people dont want to see the inside.. thats their loose!

Remember: U R beautiful!

~simplydom!

Answer 6

hell no!!
everyone has there own style and their own opinion of what does and doesn't look good. It isn't fair that someone who supposedly is "more fashionable" to walk all over someone else for being different. People need to look past appearances

Answer 7

Of course it is not fair. People only do that to build their own self-esteem. If they can make others feel bad, it boosts their ego. It's sad but true.