I am seeing this guy who i am crazy in love with. At first it was just casual then he begged for more. Now he says he loves me a lot and he wants a family with me. I told him i don't want to have a baby out of wedlock, so we should at least get engaged before we make a baby. He said we'd get engaged after i got pregnant, but i refused, so we got engaged. Now we're trying to have a baby. The problem is, i see him like once a week on weekends. The only time I get to see him more than that is when i'm ovulating. He makes the extra effort just to make a baby. He's going out on a trip with his co-workers tomorrow. He told me he's going, but i wasn't invited. As a matter of fact he has NEVER taken me anywhere, besides to the supermarket and the doctor's office. I feel like I am being used. How can he love me and want to marry me but he doesn't make enough time for me or even bring me out. AM i being stupid thinking about having a baby with him?
2006-10-14 06:20:43 · 5 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please! Stop letting this selfish prick use you. First of all, you told him you do not want a baby out of wedlock. STOP letting him put his hands on you. You are being ocytocin-addicted to need sex from him by the physical touching and contacts he has started running on your body in order to have his way with you. All young females need to know about this chemical active in the female body! If this man is unwilling to be social and inclusive with you now, at the beginning of this affair, he will NOT change if you have his baby!! I hope you are not depending on him for financial help because he sounds like he is not interested in your feelings or in you. I would not even believe he is going with any "coworkers". Get one of your girlfriends to go with you and witness them leaving for this "trip" if you really want the truth. He is hiding something from you. If you have any self-respect left, you will leave him alone right now- before you ruin your own life and the life of your soon to be innocent baby. RUN! Best wishes to you.
2006-10-14 06:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 19:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by schneir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to marry this guy? He doesn't repect your wishes on the topic of children? He doesn't enjoy life with you? Why are you marrying him? I think you know the answer. You just need to find the strength to actually stick up for yourself - otherwise this man and every other man in your life will walk all over you.
2006-10-14 07:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by jovy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u kinda cornered him into getting engaged sorry, but it sounds like it. you shoulld slow down
2006-10-14 06:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with...NEVER call yourself dumb and idiot
2006-10-14 06:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋