2006-10-14 05:42:55 · 14 answers · asked by lainez_1203 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
if you are smarter than they are, you'll already know...if you have to ask, forget it, you 've already lost! or what everyone else suggested- IGNORE!
2006-10-14 05:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is don't bother. I understand that's easier said than done. Upping the ante in trying to put someone down achieves nothing apart from creating greater conflict...and the copycat nature of it makes your actions as equally bad as theirs. Or another way of putting it is "if you engage an idiot, then you've got two idiots".
2006-10-14 13:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Pseudo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U don't....move on and live ur life. be happy...when u try to hurt someone u can't be happy....by seeking revenge u'll just bring more pain to urself...anger is a dangerous thing and u have to let go of it..."what goes around comes around" as the saying goes..just let things happen on their own.
2006-10-14 14:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ka-sa-da-sa-da, If you let them know it bothers you, they will enjoy continuing! If you try your best to ignore and make them think (in one ear, out the other) it does not effect you, they will get to feel foolish for even trying!
2006-10-14 12:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by ***BEEN THERE, DONE THAT!!!*** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ignore them. It will eat away at them and drive them crazy
as hard as it is and sounds it will make you a stronger person in the end.
2006-10-14 12:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by njank99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You rise above it and walk away. If you give notice to what is being said about you, you only give it validation. If its not true, you don't have defend anything.
2006-10-14 12:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you laugh at them and walk away, this absolutley kills people by taking their power to piss you off away and not taking them seriously also they end up being paranoid and looking over their shoulder waiting for you to get even ,this is most disturbing
2006-10-14 12:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you laugh with them or ignore them. People hate to be ignored and when they see what they did, did not bother you they won't try again.
2006-10-14 12:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you, that will get them more than anything
2006-10-14 12:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont. what goes around comes around.
oh, unless you want to add "your mom" to their insult. that can NEVER go wrong. :-P
2006-10-14 12:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by musicmonkey34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋