i see girls and boys say that we must know each other before accepting marriage proposal,this is not a healthy sign as most of the dating ends up having sex .Why can't young people believe in nastrology and get a correct match?
2006-10-14 05:35:02 · 10 answers · asked by Shivaswamy H 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
According to Christianity, dating is OK, but having sex before marriage is not. The boy/girl couple just need to get to know each other as friends first and make sure the other does not get hurt, if that is possible.
2006-10-14 05:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Angie M 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Me i believe in knowing each other before accepting marriage proposal. But it does not mean i will idulge in having sex. Sex can wait after marriage.Its a matter of self control and discipline.
2006-10-14 05:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by jane u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because in this day and age we are not betrothed to partners we do not know or even love. We have free will to choose who we wish to date, marry and have sex with. I agree young people should abstain due to diseases and so forth but when you become an adult, there comes that free will thing again.
p.s.- my boyfriend and I are living together and having sex!!!! And we are not engaged! Pray for us.
2006-10-14 09:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Astrology. what is the matter with getting to know someone before marrying and refraining from sex before marriage? it is the way our society has been bringing kids up lately that is why and all the Sex Sells. Sex sex sex and more sex please refrain from it.
2006-10-14 14:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by tazachusetts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah, all the world's problems will be solved if we find partners out of astrology (hell, you're probably not even intelligent enough to recognise the sarcasm in that statement!)
2006-10-14 14:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Keyring 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nastrology? That's true though that that is not a healthy (not good either) sign. They're just too open and easy these days. Not fully their fault though, it's just in their surrounding...
2006-10-14 06:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because we, as so called "modern" American parents have brought this about by our own care-free actions.....
1) We marry and divorce as often as we change clothes, even after we have lived with our spouses for years. When we are in love it's like heaven but sometimes simple stupid things like husband's snoring can lead to divorce.
2) When our children are small we don't care to mould them with good virtues and teach them good things things - well we don't have the time.....we have to go to clubs for ourselves you see!
3) Many of us don't know how to disciplin our children and give in to their demands resulting in them overpowering our authority. So if they want a boyfriend, they'll have it one way or the other.
4) We sometimes encourage dating when they are in their teens itself. Ahem! as long as you are back by 9:00pm....as if sex cannot be had at 7:00pm in the evening?
5) We want to kick our children out of our houses after they turn 18 and leave them on their own to fend for themselves - for drugs, sex or whatever.
6) This is an endless list of reasons. WE HAVE NOBODY TO BLAME BUT OURSELVES!!!
2006-10-14 06:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by parsi_porio 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think your totally right! i think that you date, but don't have sex! and when you come to the perfect guy they date him, till he proposes and then bang your on your way to getting married!
2006-10-14 05:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Better to test and taste before buying.
2006-10-14 05:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Pitambri 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
no-Women need super studs
2006-10-14 05:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by super stud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋