I seem to be stuck inside all the time! Fed up of chatting to women online and want to chat face to face.
I'm in the Manchester area and tried dating sites too.
I'm not a big fan of going out clubbing or into large crouds! So I am struggling :(
2006-10-14 05:34:32 · 18 answers · asked by VernHead123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Church, coffee houses, grocery shopping, mall, sports games, college, job, gym, video store, shoe store, you name it, we're everywhere. Just start talking...about anything.
2006-10-14 05:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Can't see what your problem is unless you are really, really shy. If you don't go out and about such as to a pub or a club then you are never going to meet any are you. I am an old man with a bald head and not very good looking but i've never had any trouble finding women to go out with because I have the chat I guess. No one on here can get you a girlfriend, that's up to you to do so my suggestion to you is to get out and about and if the first time it don't gain you a girl then try again and again because eventually you will find someone.
2006-10-14 12:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to your local gym... most have social events for their members as well as the keep fit side. Mine has organised BBQ's and stuff like that.
Join a cycling or hiking club.
Join night classes at your local college in a topic you have interst in.
You know, that kinda thing. You dont have to go out drinking and clubbing to meet women and the whole dating sites and speed dating is false and enforced anyway.... you will meet someone you like in an unexpected place and in an unexpected way!
Good luck to you.
2006-10-14 12:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by PEP 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I tried the Dating service Perfect Partners through the newspapers and like yourself no a fan of clubs or crowds but it worked a treat! In fact heading out now with somene I met through it. I found the internet good but it just ended up being a load of e-mails, this service starts off with a small ad then phone calls then meeting up, enjoy!
2006-10-14 12:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by stephen m 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm let me think for a moment. Try going outside I know its scary out there but that's where all the females are. Think of a place and chances are there will be some women there. I hear they like shopping try a shop, come on man stop being so pathetic, join a club, what are you interested in? find people with similar interests.
2006-10-14 12:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Thornsey 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Go to night school. There are loads of classes & some only last a term (6 weeks?). If it's awful you've only got a few weeks to endure. I reckon it's worth a try.
2006-10-14 14:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by JO F 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go to where your interests are. Ex. If your into comic books meet a chick at a comic book convention, etc. I met my wife at a Wu-tang concert. Method man is her favorite. RIP ODB.
2006-10-14 12:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Woo Woo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone once asked me "If you *knew* you were going to be single forever, what would you do with your life?". There have to be things you'd like to do. So, you go out and do the things you've always wanted to do. Learn what you've wanted to learn. See what you've wanted to see. And along the way, coincidentally, you meet lots of new people who share your interests!
And I'm going to second the lady that said "church", just because that's how I met my husband. ;)
2006-10-14 12:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by gamergeekgirl_otter 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the best way to meet the girl without disturbance go to bad and take a deep sleep and meet the girl u like in your dream, u can do anything in u r dreams this is the best way to do that.
2006-10-14 12:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by prem k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try a church or picnic or church picnic go to gettogthers like small parties. I challange you this;when you see a girl you like, just go say hi.
2006-10-14 12:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋