i dont know how to say i failed in love,not getting good sleep and even food also so many problems but no one hear to talk wit me or no one hear to wipe my tears also am all alone.....
2006-10-14 05:16:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep in mind that everyone feels alone and against the world at times.
Try to find three things, no matter how small, that help you start or make your day or make you thankful for living and you can be on the road to recovery.
God does not make junk, you, therefore, are not junk. Every person has their purpose in life and you have a tremendous purpose if you only will give God a chance.
Remember that failure only means a chance for a new opportunity to succeed and good luck!
2006-10-14 05:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bhai, love is always a failure, let it be . Maybe it wasnt meant to happen. Its good it happened now than later . Immagine getting married to someone and later divorcing them only later , that would have a terible impact on your life . YOur decision is wise , so dont fret but rejoice.
For sleep, u are mentally tortured , id suggest u take a break , u need a holiday . Take a week off say ur not well or do some thing and take leave. u need space to thinkl right , that way you will automatically start eating and sleeping normally. Pray if you are disturbed. Meet up with friends and have some fun in life , watch a movie , all comedy and action , no love movies plz .
Its just a bad phase that u are going through , trust me it will get better , take care , all the best !!
2006-10-14 12:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by candicecocolove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone fails in love at sometime in their life. It’s ok to feel sad but then you need to move on. Someone else will come along for you later… work on being the best guy you can be and the right girl will show up. If you are feeling sad now, try and stay busy, do some volunteer work so you are not just thinking about yourself, get some exercise and that will help you feel better also.
2006-10-14 12:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read self help books. There's one out by Joel Olsteen. A shorter book is called the Four Agreements by Dom Miguel Ruiz. He helps you get a better understanding of how to feel stronger about yourself and failed relationships. Use your past mistakes as ways to improve your future. Work out, go to church, take a class and definitely get some rest. If you really feel like you need to speak to someone and do not have a good friend or relative to talk to your health benefits at work will cover counseling and keep it discreet. I wish you luck and strength.
2006-10-14 12:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a little depressed. Had a break-up recently?
Don't be hard on yourself. Sorry to hear you are not sleeping/eating. These are signs of heartache and/or depression.
Give yourself some time to heal and you may possibly find like you are eating and sleeping again.
The best thing to do is to talk to someone about your feelings.
Have you got a good friend whom you can confide in?
don't bottle it all up.
You havn't failed at Love. You will find Love again.
Take care of yourself and remember you are worthy and will love again in time.
2006-10-14 12:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone fails in love at some time or another but what you need to know is that your not alone in feeling this way.Its called life and you have to roll with the punches.
2006-10-14 12:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to get out, go shopping, go to a friends house, walk round the block a few times, read a book...basically keep your mind active, sitting in the house moping about is only going to make you feel worse.
2006-10-14 12:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are nt alone u just need to go out there and find someone who les u for who u are and not how bg u are or how ht u are. I know I've been there buddy. It gets better I promise.
2006-10-14 12:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abey oye salee admi ka bacha bun... himtey mard madad e khuda.be cool man u will be fine that bh wasnt worth ur love.spend time w ur friends and family do things which are fun work out so u get sleep at night.
2006-10-14 12:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by sanJose_Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play a Mozart CD, take a bath, and then give yourself a hand and foot rub. You can be good to yourself.
2006-10-14 12:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋