It's been months and all i could say is that i've moved on but sometimes,all of a sudden i do think about him and it bugs me.i sometimes miss him but we are not talking anymore, even as a friend.I really feel down about this.Even other things in my life has gone haywire.haiz..
2006-10-14 04:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because a part of you has yet to accept the loss and everyone has some trepidation of the unknown. You may still have some love for him and it doesn't have to fade completely.
I met a girl about 16 years ago and i've mentioned our story here before but we had a very passionate relationship for 2 1/2 years. We were at the point where we could just read each others minds however we did fall apart but i think of her everyday. On the anniversary of the day we met June 10th i say a prayer for her and on her birthday July 4th i look east to the direction of where she lived when we were together and wish her a happy birthday.
I don't remember the day we broke up i erased it from my mind.
You will heal eventually but you will remember and in remembering do not cry because it all ended just smile because it actually happened.
"Remember i was always true
Remember that i always tried
Remember i loved only you
Remember me and smile
Because it's better to forget
than to remember me and cry"
-Treasure by The Cure
2006-10-14 05:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by sprydle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy moving on from relationships, especially when you really loved the person or got badly hurt. Have you tried making contact with him? Maybe he misses you too. If it's a no go then all you can do is take each day at a time. Are you in any clubs / societies? It really helps to be busy and meet lots of different people. If you are finding life a bit tough right now, try talking to a friend or counsellor.
2006-10-14 12:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by ~ Arwen ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, that's just life. You have to work through the pain and get on with your life. In the mean time, find a hobby to take your mind off of the problems. Hang out with lots of friends and talk about other things.
2006-10-14 11:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its alright, its very normal to grieve an old relationship like that. i remember breaking up with my first boyfriend of many, many years. i remember feeling sad even up to a year after we broke up. i would suddenly just cry at the drop of a hat and no one understood me.
but just remember that time is a BIG healer and that you WILL get better. you will find someone new in time and have a wonderful life. i'm married now to the most amazing guy and if i had been with that old bf (who i thought at the time was THE ONE for me), then i would never have met my husband who IS BETTER in so many ways.
so take it from me, its ok to feel sad, but you have to look forward in life. pick up a new hobby, whatever it is and DEVOTE yourself to it. who knows, maybe you'll find someone there!
good luck, hun.
2006-10-14 11:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Gumnaam1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still thinking to him once in a while maybe because you still love him or that show important him to your life. Maybe your thinking him most of the time, i hope your thinking of the happy one not the unlucky one. It's a matter of time to really fully get over wiht him. Time will come, i don't know when would that happen but oneday you'll just realize that it happen.
2006-10-14 12:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by karenj627 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're going thru is practically normal. It is okay to miss someone on occassion. If he's important to you, try to contact him to see if he's alright. BUT if you guys have parted ways for some reason, then keep the space and occupy yourself so that you won't have to think/miss him as much. Good luck
2006-10-14 11:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go up to him and ask if you could still be friends. That way you can hang out a bit and talk instead of just leaving each other alone. That could make it hurt worse.
2006-10-14 11:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by puppypal710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear all that...I can tell you to give it another month..If things are still bad then you might want to talk to your parents.You might be going through depression and need professional help. Most of the time when breaks ups happen in time you heal...It takes time..Try to keep yourself real busy...That can help some..Good luck
2006-10-14 11:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on...that's all i can say...u hav 2 leave the past behind n look foward 2 the beautiful future which lies ahead...u will get the right person!!!someday
2006-10-14 11:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by rd22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and find some other guys... hang with friends,a nd just try to forget about him. u don't sound over him to me, but time heals everything... just hang in there
2006-10-14 11:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋