Had Std twice from partner, partner beggin forgiveness, i no we had bad time, but is that forgivable, it was a

Question

it was all one night stands.

Answer 1

Its bad enough to have someone cheat on you,but to also give you a venereal disease because of their lack of responsibility I see no reason what so ever to forgive this person.If you continue to stay with him the next disease could end up being Aids and all the sorry`s in the world won`t give your life back is he really worth taking that chance

Answer 2

If your partner did not tell you that they had STD's and infected you that is grounds for you not to forgive that person, what if it was HIV? Or what if you were pregnant and you gave the STD to your baby? Really if that person cannot be honest with you and you be able to trust that person then the relationship will NEVER WORK!!! Give up, move on and find someone who will not lie. Also whoever you are with be honest and let them know that you have an STD. One night stand or not that is dirty and wrong what your partner did!

Answer 3

Terrible - you are not respecting yourself at all. You are setting yourself up to sacrifice your life for this guy. Why is your ego so tied with this guy? Do you even realize the implications? This guys doesn't love you - he likes feeling powerful by walking/manipulating/having melodrama with you.

You are in a self-destruction cycle big time. I sure hope you realize it - because after you find out that you have a permanent disease you will see how the guy wasn't worth it. And then it will be too late because you will be spoiled. I have friends who have permanent STDs - they are miserable and lonely. One girlfriend got the herp because they were too lazy to go get a condom from the truck (it was a one night stand). She's insanely and permanently pissed at herself for her own stupidity. Life has never been the same for her - not nearly as joyous because the herp is the monkey always riding her back.

Since your man is so interested in one nighters - I have to tell you that a lot of perm STD carriers have one nighters because they don't or can't have any 'relationships' otherwise. My herp friend had to be convinced to be honest with her potential partners. She never wanted to disclose because she knew the person would leave - and most of the time she was right. Desparation makes people do unspeakable things.

Answer 4

I'm kind of confused. If you're saying that you're in a relationship with someone who keeps going out on one-night-stands and then bringing them home to you, I'd say tell 'em byebye. They don't care about you in the least, since your partner is cheating on you AND letting you reap the physical benefits of his/her nights of cheating. It's common sense, by the way, if you know you're in a relationship with a cheater and you don't get out of it for all of the blatently obvious reasons, that you at LEAST practice safe sex because you don't know what their trysts are doing to your body. It's pure luck that you haven't caught HIV by now.

If you're saying you keep getting STD's because you're having one night stands, well, at the risk of sounding mean, what do you expect? That is why they are called STD's, and bed-hopping will, a lot of the time, result in STD's.

Answer 5

i could say cheating, in basic terms because of the fact verbal abuse commonly stems from a bad childhood and can be fixed by utilising treatment the place as cheating is in simple terms user-friendly and easy egocentric and unforgivable. truthfully in the experience that your dealing with those issues with your considerable different, the two or, you certainly could desire to get out. those are actually not any grounds for a respectable relationship and could never make it by using marriage, and the assumption-approximately toddlers being delivered right into a relationship consistent with lies and abuse will in basic terms turn that vicious circle around as quickly as lower back.

Answer 6

Why after the first time, why did you not protect your self. First time time shame on him, second time shame on you. Lets hope you'll be smart enough to recognize a pattern. Since he does not care enough for your physical health, he will not care for your emotional one either. Why would you forgive such a person.

Answer 7

please tell me you are kidding??? know you should not forgive him are you nuts!! he gave you std 2x the next time it could be aids hiv and you don't just take some meds. and its gone that's for ever. so what if he is begging for forgiveness. he messed up big time. tell him to leave you alone and go on with your life,and thank god that you still have one.

Answer 8

Cheating, in my mind, is not forgivable at all. It just shows a lack of respect towards you, and for themselves. Take a step back and look at your relationship. Is it really worth it anymore or are you just trying to hold on to something that isn't there anymore?

Answer 9

dont take partner back. it doesnt matter if it was a one night stand or a long time partner, this person is having unprotected sex with anyone they can get their little hands on, also i would go and get an AIDS/HIV test soon!!!!

Answer 10

Sounds like someone lacks morals here. And what's more, lacks respect for YOU. Since it's happened more than once, it is NOT forgiveable.