there's this guy who i really like n he really likes me. we havent seen each other n like a month, so we went out last night. we went back 2 his place n started makin out. then he said he thought we were moving 2 fast. so i asked him y he thought that n he said we shouldnt be doing that cus we hadnt seen each other in a while. so we talked for a lil bit, n things got heated n we went 2 the bedroom. u know what happened, so in the middle of it, he just looked @ me n said he couldnt keep going cus he felt bad. i asked him y n he said he felt like he was taking advantage of me cus this was the 1st time we saw each other in a lil over a month n here we were doing it. so he said he couldnt do that 2 me n next time we meet will be better. what did he really mean? i told him i was ready tho, but he was upset 4 the rest of the night about it. he just kept saying he felt bad cus we barely talked and started having sex. whats going on?
2006-10-14 04:20:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wants a relationship that is about more than just sex!
2006-10-14 04:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the boy what is really on his mind. Communication is the key to any relationship. Ask him why he feels this way and don't let the heat of the moment get in the way of this communication. By the way are you really sure to be ready for sex? How old areyou two? If you feel you are just remember to use protection.
Maybe he really loves you. But please talk about it.
2006-10-14 11:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by serestmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never did say how long you have known each other, sounds like he respects you and wants more than just a booty call. Need to talk with one anthor when not in a hot situations (makin out) and just let him know you find him attrative and it was mutually. Put his mind at ease
2006-10-14 11:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by magicallybeautiful10plus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usealy boys want to take advantage of you so that really tells how much he cares about you.I mean that in a good way.Just try to take it slow and maybe he'll feel cofterble with you.
2006-10-14 11:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by dezy123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don`t understand him,men usually don`t have that attitude but there`s only one way to find out.Go out with him again.If he starts the same thing dump him.He doesn`t want you anymore.
2006-10-14 11:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by coognjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy.....he let his s*xual desires get in the way and take over......he got into it and felt bad because he really cares about you and decided he didn't really want to "use" you.....he wants to pursue something more........I've had that happen before.....Good luck!!
2006-10-14 11:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to live relationship firstly then sex comes for him.so he acted like this. dont worry keep in contact with him, be the g/f of him and continue ur relationship&sex life.
2006-10-14 11:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♫♥FG♥♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a miilion questions about this 1st did he use protection if no it could be a good thing
2006-10-14 11:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by deemark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hunny,
maybe this boy likes you...but maybe he found another girl, or ask him whats going on at home maybe somthigs happning with his parents...? you should ask him...maybe if you talk more he will feel more comvertable!!!
2006-10-14 11:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by abbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....that's a good guy you got.....well if he doesn't feel bad about takering advantige, that that's your problem.
so let him hang around with you somemore, get to know him some-more, he was probably nervious and felt guity as you siad.
just give him time.
2006-10-14 11:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by ThemusicalArtist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋