I don't know why but I felt really horrible today. I was just really down about why people judge others by how they look, and how you don't get anywhere in this world without looking good. I was thinking about how I could do something in this world and be approved regardless of my looks. To worsen my troubles, I passed sum girls in the street and I am pretty sure that they were taking the piss out of my scars. These scars are a curse. Fate caused me to have two accidents; one as a toddler when I gashed it on the mantlepiece and the other as a kid when I fell off my bike. Obviously these girls didnt f**king care. They wrote me off as an ugly, like most girls did in the past. They want a guy with a nice face, pecs and washboard abs. Well I'm happy to disappoint them. F**k that. Is there anything good about me? Does society want me to hide in my bedroom and be lonely and bored all my days?
2006-10-14 04:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
hon, get out and mingle, girls that judge on outside appearance are ignorant. There are nice girls that really like great personalities. Just be nice to people and you will see.
2006-10-14 04:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is going to sound very corny and cliche', but there is truth in it.
Those girls are very superficial and do not deserve you. You are gorgeous on the inside and that is what counts.
I am a Very pretty girl (whith a scar I hide with makeup, by the way). You know what my fantasy guy is right now? A prematurely balding man with a little pot belly. Trust me, it's not the looks.
Scars can actually give you a strong, "character" look; don't write them off as ugly just yet. If you feel that badly about them, however, why don't you check out the possibility of having them lightened or fixed via plastic surgery?
Don't hide in your bedroom. Go out and make yourself into the kind of person that shows everyone how gorgeous you are on the inside as well as out. Good luck to you.
2006-10-14 11:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your head up kid. Whether you realize it or not, there are lots of people who feel like you and they don't have scars. It's part of what most people go through being a teenager. I went through it too. I got chicken pox during my freshman year that left my whole body covered in these horrible ugly scars, and I felt like that. Imagine how surprised I was when they healed and I didn't feel any better. My way to fight back was to hit the gym. I had such a birds chest that you could literally see my heart beating, so I needed to do SOMETHING. It felt like I was doing more than sitting around being helpless. When I felt bad, I worked out to fight it off. Now, I've got what I think is a really nice body and I grew up to be what I consider better looking. You just gotta keep your head up.
2006-10-14 11:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll meet all kinds of people - male and female - throughout life. Some are kind, some are insensitive. Focus on the kind ones, be kind back, and you will make some great and lasting friendships. As for the people you think are judging you, who cares what they think? Are they WORTH their bad opinions? Their thoughts and judgments can't affect you unless you allow them to, so ignore whatever they say or think. Your life is YOURS, you know yourself better than they do, and you'll go as far as you let yourself. If your scars really bother you, save up some money and have a plastic surgeon help with that - don't let a couple of skin marks turn you sour against others, or you're just as bad as they are! You can go far with your future - get moving and don't let ANYTHING drag you down emotionally or mentally!! Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-14 11:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen maybe it is what you put off..like the Ora you put off.. you got to get over the scars your self and learn how to like who you are... I am a very pretty woman and I get talked about because I pose a threat for some women ..You will be fine if you start to accept who you are and stop letting people determine how you feel.I am sure you are a great guy and their is something you do better than any one else.Start to figure it out what are you good at and start liking your self.
2006-10-14 11:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of course not how do you feel women feel when they are constantly seeing slim models with the perfect figure every where women are judged far more on size thean men are. you just need to get over your hangups get out there and make friends be a good guy and good friend people will soon forget aboput your looks
2006-10-14 11:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sam's 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I can't stand being with someone who is prettier than me. I like my men to wlook like they have been around the block once or twice. Just get out in the beautiful world we have. Try a new church.
2006-10-14 11:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by fifi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get out and meet new people.
Obviously those girls are really shallow.
But honestly..do you want a girl like that?
..Didn't think so.
You'll meet someone when the time is right.
Don't worry too much, and just get out and enjoy being single!
2006-10-14 11:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by .: The Girl Next Door:. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion is looks arent everything and people who say stuff about your looks and your scars are the ones with a low self esteem... even thou you are a guy and im a girl i still understand wat you are going through!i recently had 3 operations on my stomach for various reasons and i am now left with really ugly scars...and all i can say to those girls is dont judge a book by its cover....
2006-10-14 11:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by v s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the world you maybe nobody but to somebody you may be the world.
Get out and look for that somebody. She might be just round the corner looking for you as well.
Fate we call.
2006-10-14 11:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by TigaVios 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋