me and my girl had a better relationship when i was with another women and i would cheat on that girl to be with my current girl...but now that we are together and going to be married it isnt as good as it was then...and she is always thinking that i am cheating on her now or will...just because i did it before....
2006-10-14 04:17:59 · 14 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all girls hold on to the past like that.......only the ones that are either A) Paranoid or B) cheating themselves.......she's probably cheating on you.....and is accusing you of cheating on her to make herself feel better.......
2006-10-14 04:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to say but chances are if u did it once you'll do it again, you may not plan on it now or even later but it may happen again. And nope i surely don't once is enough 4 me as soon as i found out he's gone cause i obvioulsy wasnt doin something right and i am not about to stress myself over what wasnt good enough 4 him or how could i make it better with him, now what i would do is take all the bad tthings im our relationship, fix em, and apply what ive learned to my next relationship to make it better then the last one
lol lollipop your right a commitment to ur gf is a helluva lot different from a commitment to your wife
2006-10-14 04:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is NOT holding on to the past. That is blaming her. The blame is on YOU, not her. She will not be able to trust you because YOU broke that trust.
Take responsibility here. It is not her fault, it is yours.
And as far as having a better relationship when you were cheating, that is rediculous. The better relationship was for the cheater, not for the victim.
Just because I did it before........pay the price.
2006-10-14 04:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only reason she is acting like that is because of how you guys relationship started out. It started out by cheating. Women never forget the saying that "if he did it to her, he'd do it to you!"
2006-10-14 04:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Honesty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remind her that the HUGE difference is ... you weren't married to the other woman, and you are going to marry her. I am about to piss of a lot of women, but the truth is, commitment to a girlfriend is not the same as commitment to a wife.
2006-10-14 04:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by lollipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE should enter into a marriage with mistrust issues. Marriage is all about and based on trust.You need to work these issues out first! If you can't then don't get married.It will just be a divorce waiting to happen.
2006-10-14 04:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by ptt_pntr 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater, she will never trust you. how would she know you're not gonna cheat on her like you did to the other girl?
2006-10-14 04:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by mudebar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A cheat is always a cheat. Maybe not now but maybe later.
2006-10-14 04:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by serestmar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well of course. If a guy actually decided to cheat before, theres a huge possibility he may decide to do it again. you shouldn't have cheated at all.
2006-10-14 04:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes becasuse we dont want to take the chance of history repeating itsself
2006-10-14 04:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋