A Guy likes me and also he knows that i like him too. We are getting so well and he acts me as if we were couple but sometimes he behaves me so strange that i cant give any meanin’ his behaviours like im stranger 4 him. Also our all friends says me “ hey u r a girl of him so dont look other guys, we know everything let’s tell us how is ur relationship have begun? How is it goin’ on? “ One day i ask him others asked like this questions how should I reply them? And he just says “when they ask like this question again, say them i dont know we r in love or not and let them know nothing about us. They can think whatever they want, maybe we are couple or not It is not their affair“ In fact I dont know our situation too what we are? if we r couple i won’t interested in other guys but if we r just friend, I wanna date other guyz. My mind is really confused i dont know how should act him :/ in a really friendly way or not. Sometimes i think go my way without thinkin’ him and give change other guyz who want to datin’ with me… but then think that if i date with other guy, how can he behave me? I dont wanna lose him.Finally this stituation have continued for 6 months and im really sick and tired because of this fogginess.If u were me, what would u do?
2006-10-14 04:04:12 · 6 answers · asked by ♫♥FG♥♫ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to ask him. He hasnt been clear thus far so you need to get him to come clean what direction he feels the relationship is going in.
If it were me, I wouldnt have let it get this far. But he said himself "I dont know if were in love or not and "maybe we are a couple or not". It doesnt sound like a commitment to me. You need to be straight up and get answers or move on.
2006-10-14 04:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation for over a year. I finally told him I was in love with him, I aksed how he felt, he answered he didn't know if he was too. Later he said he knew, but he thought I was putting too much pressure on him, so he didn't want to tell me. A week later he kissed me. We went out and stuff but for a month or two we said nothing to our friends and we didn't kiss in front of them, until we were sure. Now we are married!! So the bottom line is, act like you are together, but don't make it "official" with your friends and don't say much about it for a while ( a month tops), but act more and more like you are his girlfriend until he gets used to it. Then do it in front of the others too, so it becomes like a fact.
2006-10-14 11:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww u poor thing u sound confused. Personally, I wouldn't worry 2 much about it. But if you're really so upset why don't u talk to the guy?? He has a right to know how you're feeling and you will feel a lot better!
2006-10-14 11:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit the guy down and ask him. Flat out say I want to know exactly where I stand in this relationship. Am I your girlfriend or not.
2006-10-14 11:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will make you sick? Just losing him or losing his love.If you are tired to seek your answer then why don't you say "I love you" and if you want your answer the other way round then why don't you go for other guy to get your answer.
2006-10-14 11:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sona420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, girl...if he doesn't want to know others that you two like each other..then, what's the point?
2006-10-14 11:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋