hi i m a 16 yr old girl n i lov aguy whose 1 yr elder than me he likes me bt says that he luvs som1 else who lives in some other city n is his gud old frnd.i talked 2 him abt this-he says dat both of us r important to him but i know he'll leave me as he's in12th std.n after a few months he'll go 2 some other city 4 studies n will never turn back 2 me.but i dont want dat.plz suggest me what should i do??
2006-10-14 02:39:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are 16 then believe me its not love. just relax and dont wander off so much. i bet he too is nt in love with that other friend.if you bring competition in love its not love its just the desire to fulfil your infatuation. i personally feel that if the guy is so confused betweenTWO girls then he wont ever giv a 100% to your relationship. what do you think by winning him over you would actually make him happy. dont try to make his decision for him. live like a winner not a loser.if he has not chosen you yet then he doesnt know what he is loosing. move on.meet other ppl and discover a ehole new bunch of good and better guys. you will find it that even if he rejects you he wont affect you in any way. just enjoy your life!!dont ruin it with such trivial stuff
2006-10-14 03:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont' worry about it. i know it seems like its a big thing right now...but trust me....it won't go very far. date someone else. dont ' go there and let yourself be treated like that. move on. you may as well learn now how to let men treat you. and don't let them treat you like that. he is up front and says he will leave you and theres someone else....believe him and dont' be a patsy or a back up chic. you dont' need that. if you don't want to to date right now.........thats ok. but dont' wait to long go on simple after noon dates or something. but you need to move on and let it go. take some time away from him maybe. if your letting the idea of being with him hold you back from dating other people.....you need to take time away. talk to your mom about it.......auntie.........school counsellor. teacher.......someone. preferably a woman though. get some feed back from a live person and not just over the internet
2006-10-14 02:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sweet cherry....i would like to suggest u just one thing....dont change yourself or pretend to behave in another way just to get his love....cuz the day u start behaving ur normal self...he might or might not like it....he LIKES u n takes u as a very good friend, sum1 he can trust on...but he LOVES the other girl n wants to spend the entire life with her....i know it is painful to know that the person u love does not love u....n even more painful to know that the person u love....loves sum1 else.....but i'll ask u just 1 question....wud u not be happy to see that the person u love is happy??so what if it is with sum1 else??just be ur true self....if he notices how good n nice u r.....his idea might change.....god bless n take care
2006-10-14 02:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by kirti u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminds me of the nice song by Kumar Sanu..."Tu pyaar hai kisi aur kaa, tujhe chahta koi aur hai..." ...looks like this fits you to a tee. You are too young to dabble in this at this age. Try to forget about him and carry on with your life with gusto. You are very young and will come across many other nice people and life will scatter many opportunities in your path.
2006-10-14 06:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot MAKE someone love you forever. They have to find that love within themselves. Trust me, I thought my love and the actions I was taking would make my exboyfriend love me forever, but that just isn't the case. Just make yourself available to him. If he is interested in you, he will meet you half way.
2006-10-14 02:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by baka_desho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if you REALLY think that you can MAKE someone love you, then you are in for a long, miserable life.
Go somewhere and get over yourself, and while your at it, do your homework.
2006-10-14 02:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thares nothing you can do if he wants to leave for someone else than let him cause that shows that he wasn't the one and that you don't need him!!!!!
2006-10-14 02:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Puerto Rican Sweetheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
poor guy.. and you are lucky, to loose such a person like you is his bad luck.. you develop confidence in you.. you will get a very nice person
2006-10-14 02:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him some chips and ask him if he has a brown pencil. If he does you will know he will stay with you forever!!!!.....hows "dat"?
2006-10-14 02:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act normal..!
2006-10-14 02:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋