when i first saw my boyfriend it was at a pool so his hair was back an he was a cutie, but when school started he had a mushroom haircut and he is a total nerd!! please im not the type of person that can break up with some one and hurt them ive been tying to in him but he is never on!!
2006-10-14 02:38:15 · 21 answers · asked by bebechic264 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont like him anymore
2006-10-14 02:41:53 · update #1
Look, this is very simple. If you don't like the poor guy, break up with him. In a NICE way, OK?
Now, about your "im not the type of person that can break up with someone and hurt them" problem, If you're going out with him and you don't like him, you're hurting him more than breaking up with him would. You're lying to him by staying with him because you're saying that you still love him.
He'd be better off without a girl than with a girl that doesn't love him.
I know that may sound a little harsh, but if he's got half the sense God gave a goat, he'll understand your reasoning.
And, wouldn't you rather him be happy!!??
Hope that helps you!
2006-10-14 02:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sonic.Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What u are doing is wrong..judgeing his appearnce and thats not nice.
"U should never judge others unless you have judged urself."
If there was a real HOTT guy and u fall in love with him yet he didn't want u for ur looks cuz he thinks ur not good enough...yet again ur satistfied with ur looks and he insulted u cuz u were not good enough 2 be with him...How would u feel?
Low self of steam...hurt coz u think ur not good enough for any body.
You were wrong for judging the boy in the frist place and now he is ur b/f....you want 2 let him go cuz of his looks but not for his personality?!
Thats a shame cuz one day some1 would treat u that way and u will never smile with joy without feeling some1 judging ur appearnce.
You say that ur not the type that want 2 hurt people but you don't see that u are, don't u think he notcie ur avoiding him??!! he just holding on ur relationship...If he is a nerd 4 looking a certain way than what are you for judging him?
It's best 2 know him than judge him..but if u break up with him you have no soul.
God made many faces and WHO said to u one looks better than the other?
One may look good but always choose what seems better
I hope u understand what kind of situation ur puting urself in and puting him in also..if u hurt him than it would affect his whole life..just coz of his looks and that will say with him for a long time so judge him by who he is and look inside him than outside
Bye...Smile
if ur not gonna be nice 2 him...it's best 2 break up with him so he don't need 2 waste ur time...But at least be nice...u have 2 be happy coz most people can't find a guy at all.
2006-10-14 09:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This smells like peer pressure to me. You liked him over the summer, but when school started you suddenly realized he was a nerd? Hmmm? I think you should concentrate on what it is that you like about him and forget what your friends think and say.
Maybe he's on Yahoo answers too and will figure out that you don't like him any more because he is a nerd just from reading your question. Wow, that's real cold. Why don't you break up with him by e-mail, ice maiden?
2006-10-14 09:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
take some wax to school and fix his hair you said he was cute you can fix it hair cute is nothing.Its fixable.Plus nerds always end up rich and smart with better careers be careful if your dumping him for a hair cut or for what your friends think one of them might see the diamond in the rough and snatch him up. wouldn't that suck.Alot of the guys i went to school with the popular ones nearly all didn't succeed the nerds ended up in bands and with great money making skills the others with nothing you need a smart guy you can mould into a hottie
2006-10-14 09:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by raghie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why ask others to make a choice for you? If you are attracted to him, then you have to decide what you can or can not accept. No other person knows the depths of your mind. It would seem that you are simply afraid to make a choice....life isn't based on others, it is based on you and what is best for you. Don't shrug your own responsibility.....choose it.....Win or Lose it.....Love is never quite the same.
2006-10-14 09:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him and move on to one of the "pretty boys" cause it seems like your requirements in a bf are superficial. Let another girl have him. In 10 years,you're gonna wish you had stuck with the nerd. You can always influence how he dresses and wears his hair; but since your'e so cool I guess you don't have time for that.
2006-10-14 09:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
So was Bill Gates. Don't leap off the bridge until you think about it.
Tell him what you are having problems with. It's very difficult to analyze yourself. He may not have a clue that he's being nerdy. If he cares about you, he will change. Good Luck
2006-10-14 09:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a boyfriend that you see more often, girl. What are you 10? Seriously, it's time to step it up and get a boyfriend that can be there for you and that you care about enough not to let looks get in the way.
2006-10-14 09:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by dropdeadchicken28 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can you cut hair or a friend of yours know how, then tell him that you need him to do a favor and let them cut his hair, they need the practice or something like that. Good luck.
2006-10-14 09:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you've got the classic making of a young teen girl...Trying to control your BF...AND you are seriously concerned about your own ego.
If you don't like someone anymore because of his hair, then I seriously question your motives for liking him in the first place.
Get off your high horse would you?
2006-10-14 09:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋