2006-10-14 02:26:37 · 7 answers · asked by CURIOUS 2 in Pets ➔ Cats
i dont give my wife sex until i get my way.ha ha if that dont work i find something she wants and make her a deal. or if the cat cost a 1000.00 i give her a 1000.00 and tell her to go buy what she wants and then i go buy what i want. and if that dont work take off your dress and put on some pants.
2006-10-14 02:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Help us help you. Why does she not want to buy one? Is she allergic? Scared of cats? Doesn't want to deal with cat hair? Doesn't like cats but knows you won't take care of it and she will have to?
A lot of people think a cat will pee all over everything. They don't HAVE to do that. If they do there is something wrong, possibly a medical condition, possibly just that you aren't keeping the litter box clean enough or are using the wrong litter. So this doesn't HAVE to be a problem.
But until you ask the wife, you don't know why she doesn't want one.
My suggestion: Make up a list of why you want the cat and how it can wor. Anticipate her problems with it and think out replies in advance. Be reasonable and thoughtful about your answers. Then sit her down and talk to her. Negotiate. Help her decide that her concerns can be dealt with.
Remember that she lives in the house too, and she deserves a say. But hen so do you. Compromise is going to be key, but unless you talk to her you might as well give up.
When I do adoptions for my shelter, I always jokingly tell the women to tell their husbands "Honey you WANT me to be happy don't you?" It's done jokingly, but the truth is, if having a cat is important to you, you need to express to her that it is important and why. If she truly loves you, she will want you to be happy even if it means not getting her way on this issue. Just remember that you have to give her the same benefit. If NOT having a cat is that important to her, maybe you can give in and get your cat fill by volunteering with your local animal shelter.
2006-10-14 09:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Robin D 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that having a maine **** cat is essential to your sense of mental and emotional well-being and spiritual balance. Who knows how you'd be several months down the road if you did not have access to your medicinal cat?
Your wife might just stop to have a good think.
2006-10-14 09:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Phoebhart 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why does it go starry whenever someone talks about a Maine Coone?
Why not a ragdoll kitten? I haven't seen any girl not completely melt when faced with a lil ragdoll kitten :) How can one resist?!
2006-10-14 09:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by sickpuppy_1988 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show her a photo of a Maine ****,she'll fall in love.
2006-10-14 10:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't you check the local Humane Societies and animal shelters? Fully one quarter of the animals that end up in shelters are pure breeds. You might save one from death, or, maybe you see a kittie that melts your heart anyway.
2006-10-14 09:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her its the cat, or me(show her my picture). She will say the cat
2006-10-14 09:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋