how do i stop this? i cant help but be mean...
2006-10-14 02:10:36 · 18 answers · asked by switmich 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just take a breath. i struggle with this also. i have found if i am around negative people it makes it worse. try to spend less time with these people. learn to "bite your tongue" . think these things yourself, but try to spare others.
good luck.
2006-10-14 02:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Baby #1 born August 2009 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you actually mean to others or do you just have mean thoughts? Has someone treated you the way you're treating others? You have to work on treating people the way you would like to be treated. If you're around someone who is constantly being mean, then you need to decide if that person is important in your life. Example: I knew someone once who wasn't happy unless her whole world were in chaos. No matter what good things came to her, it wasn't enough. After listening to this negative attitude, I began to feel awful just having her call me. I had no reason to feel bad. I had to decide if I wanted all the negativity in my life, and NO I didn't. So I politely told her that. I haven't spoken to her in over 10 yrs. My point being, you are the only one who can change the way you feel and the way you treat others. Give yourself a break, you are a good person. If you're good to yourself, others will see this and also treat you well.
I think I can, I think I can... Hugs
2006-10-14 02:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for the therapist's help. You have some unresolved anger issues that you need to explore with the help of a trained therapist.
He/she will help guide you on the path to a happier existence.
Good luck!
2006-10-14 02:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to ask yourself what might be the reason,, are you miserable in your life ? do you have friends that still puts up with your meanness, if you don't get help for it now it will follow you your whole life, maybe you could take a anger management class to help you out. would you like people to treat you like you treat them
2006-10-14 02:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody in this world is mean n very few except.n u r one of them , hats off to u . its important to be mean sometimes but certainly not always .before doin anything think twice that by doin that perticular act u r not hurting anybody. ALL THE BEST
2006-10-14 02:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by vanshsa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were a really mean person you would not show regret. As you get older you will have better control over what you do and say.
2006-10-14 02:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, mean people are congested with lots of problems and have inferior complex. You need to let it go and relax. Move on and be nice. You will love it..
2006-10-14 02:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural to feel this way occasionally. Your question indicates a sensitive side to your nature aand that is good! Shows a caring person.
2006-10-14 02:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you a teen? If so you are probably just having mood swings with puberty. If not, you can help your angriness by counting to 10.
2006-10-14 02:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
breath in deeply next time before u want to open ur mouth n be sarcastic
hope this will help,gd luck
2006-10-14 02:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋