how do you deal with the lack of "miracles" in your life: no one to fall in love with, not getting the job you want but you're trying as much as you can, your "friend" is only with her boyfriend, your family life's not nice, etc...
2006-10-14 02:03:43 · 6 answers · asked by Fuzzy_lop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are the only one who it in control of your life. Change it! I know it probably sounds dumb, but honestly change your mindset. Tell yourself constantly that things will get better, go different places to meet new people, take classes that are interesting and different. So many people are stuck in their own little world that they really can't see whats actually going on with the rest of the world. No matter what keep a smile on your face and think only good thoughts. Of course things will always suck if you feel like they do.
Good luck!
2006-10-14 02:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like you sometimes and I admit, I can be the most cynical and pessimistic person on the planet.
I have to stop myself sometimes and realise that life isn't about what I haven't got, it's about what I have got.
Try thinking a little bit more positively...Not saying it works all the time but it may help a little.
If you ever want to discuss things that are getting youdown don't hesitate to email me: joey_anna123@yahoo.com.
2006-10-14 09:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by *Care Bear* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short, live with it to the fullest, miracles sometimes
happened only when your near death,even if your life is a mess it still something to thank for,there is a saying , if every
wish that you can think of will be granted in just a flick of your hand, then chances are you are living with the holy ghost,and thats means your living with your after life
2006-10-14 09:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I take notes.I write or type in the computer,about my priorities.After I put them in order,I focus to reach them (make goals).we need to be really logic.If you want to live longer,healthy,and without worries;you need to be realistic.Never think in what you do not have,think in what you have for to live in this planet earth and apply them to your daily life.Forget about past time,and see what you can you for yourself,your friends or your family.Think always positive,be positive,never think in negative way.Try to be happy and smile everyday.Worries kill people.Pray to God everyday,ask God help your destiny and He will do,of course.Never give up in this life.Everybody have in this life up and downs.If you have time, go to church,pray and read your Bible.Good luck.That is how I deal with life.I am happy everyday and love my family,friends and my neighbour.
2006-10-14 09:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the expectations were/are too high. Maybe a step back and look for the small good things in life and build from there. When everything seems so wrong, nothing is working, no one seems to care, you have to look harder, work harder, try harder to make things better. No one is going to give it to you. You have to provide it for yourself. You have to believe in yourself. hugs
2006-10-14 09:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the most of what you have got, live your life and soon enough you will be happy and have things you never thought you would.
2006-10-14 09:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋