My bf has a new job and says he is too tired after work to do anything, so we only see each other on weekends now. He is great when we're together, but weekends are not enough for me. Guys....if you really care about a girl, wouldn't you want to see her even if you were tired? Girls....would you break it off with a guy you love because you don't get to see him enough?
2006-10-14 01:56:51 · 13 answers · asked by schweetums 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two years together, one (minor) fight...we see each other at the most 3 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. But no matter how often, it's worth the wait. Why worry about it? After all, love is a 'long-haul' adventure, right? Jealousy, on the other hand, might REQUIRE you to be with him/her continually, but -as we all know- jealousy and love can not exsist in the same heart; one will override the other. It doesn't matter if I am tired or wide awake, I always cherish the time we do manage to squeeze out of our busy week. Think about the consequences of tossing away something good because of frivolous reasons.
2006-10-14 02:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you know how tired he's been with his new job and would like to come over and make him dinner during the week to help out. Then stay over. Just don't bug him to make conversation or for sex. Unless he initiates.
I had a job myself recently where I said the same thing. I was very tired after getting home from work and basically want to take a shower, eat, watch TV for a bit then go to bed. My bf would come over and would want me to be focused on him through talking, sex etc. I was tired and it got old and ended up dumping him. Now my job is back to normal. If he had waited and stood by me without being a pest things may have ended differently.
2006-10-14 09:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ericka 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a break!
He sees you on the weekends? What are you complaining about?
Most people who are very tired do not want to see anyone.
I don't want to hurt you, but if you don't give your boyfriend some alone time during the week, you will find yourself alone.
Do some things with your friends in the week, and let the poor guy have some free time.
If you aren't happy with the arrangement find someone else. Just remember- no guy wants to be smothered by a clinging vine!
2006-10-14 09:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your pretty lucky to see him on the weekends. I am pretty lucky if I see my boyfriend once a week! Usually its every week and a half to two weeks...I wouldnt break up with him becuase I understand the situation which is Were both Broke POOR...Your situation just happens to be different, Id take the other ppls advice and ask him to make dinner for him or something of the sort, but if he says no Id start to wonder why and also I wouldnt push if he said no either...
2006-10-14 09:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlee K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the reakky great weekends instead of forcing him to spend time with you when he doesn't feel up to it-Or offer to come around cook him some supper run a bath for him and give him a massage!! If you pamper him once he will want you around all the time in the hope you'll do it again. But don't push it better to have great weekends than crappy cranky full time!
2006-10-14 09:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by Shiv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go visit him then, try ask or suprise visit, with something to eat or give him a massage. I f his work are really tiring i will understand, sometimes i do that too. but mostly in a relationship, you should have time for each other or get a time. talk to him, maybe something is going on? guys love to see thier gf all the time. maybe his stress at work? goodluck! honey, i see my bf only every three months but we spend those days with each other.
2006-10-14 09:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long yous are together....its a new job so he proberly needs time to adjust and get used to the hours of work give it another while and then try to come to a compromise i dont think it means he cres for you any less stop stressing and give it time
2006-10-14 09:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by keevy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if i was in love with my boyfriend as you are, there is no way i would break up with him because of this. love does not go away. me and my ex broke up 2 years ago and we both still completely love eachother. work at it.
2006-10-14 08:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by barbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I SEE HIM EVERY DAY BECAUSE WE LIVE TOGETHER... EVEN WHEN WE DIDNT LIVE TOGETHER I STILL SEEN HIM EVERY DAY... EVEN WHEN HE WAS TOO TIRED TO COME OVER I WOULD GO OVER HIS HOUSE AND LAY WITH HIM AND THE SAME WAY WHEN I WAS TIRE... HE WOULD COME OVER TO MY HOUSE..... TRY THAT IF U REALLY WANT TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH HIM......
2006-10-14 09:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tired.what a rotten excuse!
He goes to bed early you think?
Yes ,probably:but who is there with him?
Ever thought of that?
When u love someone.u want to spend as much time together as possible.
Ditch him,find one that wants to be with you 24/7.
This sucks big time!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 09:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋