Today I got word that a person had killed himself over a divorce. I do not know the family, nor do I know the man in question. But the deep feeling of sadness followed me round all evening. I posted a special blog; but it has not helped me with this deep feeling of sadness. Why do I feel so sad when I don't even know this family?
2006-10-14 01:54:11 · 22 answers · asked by Bluebells21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This feeling is sadness for the society that we live in. The world around us is always in shambles. While our lives may be perfect, there are countless others with so many problems that could be solved if people would think and be loving and considerate. It is good that you feel sadness for our society. It means that you arn't just another heartless person engulfed in it. It also probably means that you want to help people with problems like that man's. It's a noble cause.
2006-10-14 01:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by dropdeadchicken28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to have feelings of sadness. Yes, even for people you don't know, but if they continue you should seek some kind of help. Try and clear it from your mind and keep yourself busy. The mind is very powerful and you CAN control your emotions. Life just sucks sometime...get over it.
2006-10-14 08:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're very sensitive and you were probably not feeling very good on that day ! So that just completly shatterred you . Or maybe you're scared that that does happen to someone you know ...You're a nice person . Look at the bright sides of things ! And talk about it to someone it might help
good luck
2006-10-14 09:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by La parisienne ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just like some people cry over a movie that is sad. There's nothing wrong with that or you your just very sensitive to others feelings and there's not a thing wrong with that.
2006-10-14 10:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a person with beautiful feelings,as a wonderful human being.You are a very sensitive and nice person.Pray for that family and everything is gonna be alright.Good luck.
2006-10-14 10:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are empathetic. It is okay and normal to feel sad when you see others in pain. Reading obituaries of people I don't know sometimes makes me cry. I think it's because I know how they feel and it brings up memories and emotions about those I have lost.
2006-10-14 08:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit it is very sad but you cant take on the worries of the world, you are going to have to learn to distance yourself from other peoples problems. I can assure life will send you enough of your own.
2006-10-14 09:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Freakyfran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its human nature to be sad of some incidents that your not even involve with.it means that you have a good heart
kindness,good conscience,heres what you can do look up
find a cloud name that cloud after that person and tell that cloud that you fell his pain and tell him your prayers will be with him and his family, once youve done that you will be okay
2006-10-14 09:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows that you are an empathetic person who cares about others. Maybe also say a prayer for the poor person. You have done all you can. Bless you. :)
2006-10-14 09:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things just affect us and it shows that you care about people even if you don't know them it could mean that you are an intrinsically good person!
2006-10-14 08:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by gizmoweb666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋