ok, me and this guy have been goin out for 9 months. everything is great between us except there's one great obstacle: GOSSIP. I hear a lot about how he is seeing other women and i've even seen pictures! no lie! i gave him another chance because he says that he's changed. but rumors are starting up again. They were true the first time and this time, well, i'm not so sure anymore. Even his best friend has told me several things about him. So now my question is, how must i confront my boyfriend about this situation? please help!!!!
2006-10-14 01:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by sweetlover8814 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's cheatin' on you ... and you KNOW he's cheatin' on you ... dump his ***!
2006-10-14 01:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I must commend you for not giving up on love and giving him the benefit of the doubt and allowing him a second chance - the was very big of you - so may say it was stupid but they/re more than likely alone, unhappy or in a bad relationship.
Onto the issue at hand ... you must MUST sperate yourself from this man. My guess is that you both spend a great deal of time togther - you need to remove yourself from him for a few days and make sure that htis relationsihp and him AS HE IS is something that you want. Expalin thoroughly that you are not breaking up or taking a break, this is not an opportunity for either of you to "see" other people - you are just needing sometime to clear your head of all the nonsense and drama that people have been trying to put in your head and look at what's really there. If he can't understand this or protests ( he's not the one - move on). If he continues to insist that it's a "break" then he's seeing somoneone else already and has been waiting for you to break it off to not look like a total jerk to you.
No one is perfect so you need to remember that - really reflect on what you want and keep in mind that God intends for us women to be cherished, valued and adored if he doesn't make you feel that way .. then you know what to do.
2006-10-14 09:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed_One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ok so youve seen pictures that he's cheated on you...he admitted too it? He sounds like he could be lying about changing most people just dont change over night...bad habits die hard...Does it seem like he might be keeping around for some ungodly reason? Just do some serious thinking on the relationship and confront him out in the open...Communication is key to any relationship and so is trust..it doesnt sound like you trust him sweetheart and neither would I...
2006-10-14 08:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ashlee K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's one thing I have learned in life, it's there is always at least a shred of truth in every rumor. Yes, you need to confront him. Tell him you want to trust him but tell him you have heard things again and you don't want them to be true and see what he says.
2006-10-14 08:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staight up thats how. Do you want to be the butt of the jokes here? If hes cheating on you again move on. Have more respect for yourself and get out. You will find someone else who will only want you.
2006-10-14 08:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being an idiot you know what you want to do and you want validation in your decision here. Dump him and move on or just have an open relationship, like just date and enjoy each others company.
2006-10-14 08:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by jfc21980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you trust his best friend? Your bf obviously doesnt take you as serious as you think you are to him. I would text him GOODBYE... And send a pic of you waving GOODBYE!!
2006-10-14 08:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a martyr...I think you know what will be the outcome if you confront him again...he will deny it all...do you think you can stand all his denials? you better break up with him and find someone else who is deserving of your love....
2006-10-14 09:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One to one up front no messing ask then, depends how he answers whether he is telling the truth or telling you porkies then, you can decide can`t you?.
2006-10-14 08:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know the answer dump him theres never smoke without fire and he has form so move on
2006-10-14 08:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-14 08:54:54 · answer #11 · answered by sorena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋