for anyone, what would be the best way without hurting them so much?
2006-10-14 01:32:00 · 18 answers · asked by sweetlover8814 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up is really hard to take but if you want to break up,you should just do it in person.go ahead n just speak your mind n relieve yourself of the burden you are carrying of guilt.being dumped always hurts,so just keep it cool wid him.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-14 01:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is rarely easy. You both had feelings for each other at one point, and maybe you still do. The key is to do it maturely, without deliberate pain, so that you can both move on with your lives and find someone better suited for you. A relationship really needs two fully committed people, so if one of you doesn't want to be in the relationship any more, it's best for BOTH of you to end it. That's the key message to get across.
Don't get into lots of blame-finding. There is always fault on both sides in a relationship that fails. Make sure you sit down face to face somewhere quiet. Never break up over the phone or via email, that's completely unfair. A relationship is based on trust and dependability - don't prove you're unworthy of that in the final hour. Sit down and explain it's not going to work. If your partner has questions, answer them as fairly as you can, but without going into lots of back-stabbing. Breaking up isn't about finding fault. It's about you both being able to find "closure" to this relationship so you are able to then move on to a new one.
It's really in both of your best interests to end this cleanly. If you don't, it will come back to haunt you in many ways. If you can both accept that this was simply not meant to be, and that somewhere out there a new person awaits which IS perfect for each of you, you might even be able to stay friends. Or if not, you can look back on your time together as an enjoyable experiment which just didn't work out the way you'd originally hoped.
2006-10-14 01:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by Omar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey never hurt him or her just sit and start talking when the topic gets in depth then just say in clear but normal way that u know the kind of spark i always wanted in this relation is gone so we can do one thing and that is we can become good friends from now on and if in future we both felt like dating eachother then we willl continue and thae as friends i gurantee u wont talk above 1 months and the relationship will be gone and u wont feel bad even u can say him or her hi while on the road after a u say 6 months its good breakup not like others who start talking rubbish aboout a girl or boy after breakup
2006-10-14 01:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do it with him face to face and just say it isnt working.
Maybe instead of breaking up you can suggest going on a break that way if you decided later on that you dont want to get back together than coz you have had this break it wont seem so bad but also if you decide that you do truly like him then theres always a chance that you could get back together.
2006-10-14 01:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it in person. It's going to hurt either way. My ex let me find out for myself he wanted to date another girl and it hurt so much. THEN! THEN he had the nerve to say that after 3 years, he didn't love me anymore. How do you not have feelings for someone after that long.
Dont lie!
Dont go out with somene else straight away like my ex did!
Dont insult the person!
Do it in person if you can!
2006-10-14 01:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person you don't want to see them anymore, that you don't see a future with him/her. Don't get anymore involved in it then that. Like a bandaid, pull it off quickly and move on, worrying about hurting feelings will often prolong the pain, just be honest.
2006-10-14 01:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by daniel a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are going to be hurt there is no way around that but be straight forward and honest in your approach. Show them that you respect them enough to give them the truth. Sometimes things just don't work out.
2006-10-14 01:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this can be a difficult situation but i recomend coming from your heart and being honest tell them how you feel but dont be cruel just say enough to make them understand ! but never walk away without handing it that is so creul you should always do the right thing and tell them face to face ok .god bless! goodluck
2006-10-14 01:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be honest , but aware ot the other persons emotional state.Approach the matter in a caring but honest way.
2006-10-14 01:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Phil h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋