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how do i fight it and not be in touch with someone i love but who doesn't love me

i knows it makes no sense to even talk about this but i guess i need time to come to terms with it and don't want to make a mistake by...

2006-10-14 01:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

& why does this hurt so much

i know how things would end for me

2006-10-14 01:36:53 · update #1

9 answers

You need to get busy with other things. Do not let your feelings control you. Take charge. Find someone else - try one of the online dating services, for example. Or volunteer. Go out with friends.

Be glad that you have feelings. Now just put them somewhere else.

2006-10-14 01:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by m15 4 · 0 0

It's hard I know and yes it makes sense but you already know you need to stay away. Time is the answer. It takes time to get over heart ache and you will, I know it doesn't seem that way right now but you will. Just keep staying away and each day it will become less painful until one day you wake up and realize hey, I'm ok. Good luck and be strong

2006-10-14 08:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by momma 3 · 0 0

You have to learn to value yourself and your life.

I know it is painful, but unrequited love is a monumental waste of precious time that you could be out there meeting someone who can give you what you need to be happy.

You have to face the fact that you will find love again, but you must start looking for real possibilities. She isn't one of them.

Fantasy isn't going to help nor is pining away for someone who obviously isn't even giving you a thought.

And this, too, shall pass...

2006-10-14 08:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 0 0

Im sorry u feel like that... been there myself...
Best thing to do is find a friend to talk, go shopping, do anything u enjoy that will help u take ur mind off this person. dont be on ur own and most important of all BE STRONG... u can do it!

Good luck

2006-10-14 08:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

This will be hard but it works for me.

When you are having temptation, think of your sad memories. Remember, of all emotions, sadness is the most powerfull and easy to make. When you're sad your temptation will be replaced.

Good luck.. Hope this helps..

2006-10-14 08:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Overthere>>> 1 · 0 0

write things down about this person sort of like poetry until you are so bored of the subject that you feel you might be over him. allow yourself time to heal but also delete all the contact details you have for him.

2006-10-14 08:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by sexy j 3 · 0 0

You said it. Time fixes all. Protect your dignity and tread carefully.
Good luck

2006-10-14 08:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Phil h 2 · 0 0

u have to accept the fact ...

2006-10-14 08:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by ~electra~ 4 · 0 0

Scarlett, no! Just no.

2006-10-14 08:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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