well we have got back together and he insists that he stays friends with his ex i quote she is a good friend thats all .....he cant understand that its wrong and will not give our relationship a chance also at the slightest rough bit he goes running to her to talk he is a binge drinking alcoholic and she supplies him with drink while they talk tells him what to do and what to say lets him get drunk then ofcourse he has to stay the night .....no bitching now but she is the most ugliest person i have ever met no personality cant look anyone in the eye when they are speaking to her she is very very big infact i am sure its a man !!!!!!!
he lies to me when she is around but when we are left alone its wonderful and he says the same what can i do
2006-10-14 01:14:41 · 10 answers · asked by sue s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave this guy and quick! He's not good enough for you. Let him be friends with the ex-girlfriend. He keeps running back to her, let him have her. You don't need that in a fiance. Find someone better. Find someone who's there for you and won't binge drink. They're out there, just keep looking. Good luck!
2006-10-14 01:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, what in the world did you find in him that you went back with him..been there and wouldn't go back..this so called friend of his, is not just a friend..i don't know how what more evidence you need!! he is lieing to you, belittling you with her, he has a problem with alcohol..you are not secure with yourself or you would realize that you are worth more than that..sounds like he has control over this relationship not both of you..get out..tell him to do his thing and start to get some help in self-esteem.. this is not love!!! he needs time to grow up and do some work on himself..blessings
2006-10-14 08:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... You went back to his cheating ****. wow you must really hate yourself to allow such a con man to enter your life again and then he demand to stay friends with the woman who interfered with your life once before.. You need to get some professional help because you have serious issues with yourself. If you were a whole person you would not have fallen for his new crap and you need to leave his sorry **** and find your way in life.. he does not love you. he is using you till the next bimbo comes along and then bamm he is gone again. he will hurt you over and over. You allow him to. You give him permission to hurt you when you allow him to control that much of your so called life..
2006-10-14 08:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why an ex should remain an ex.
You seem to be an extremely insecure person and quite critical as well. It appears that you want him, and not the other way around. Why do you want this guy with all of his problems?
2006-10-14 08:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the lush to the curb. He's not worth keeping around.
2006-10-14 08:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find another man, alcoholic people becomes violent sometimes. You better stay away from him, or just give him awarning that you will leave him if he doesn't stop drinking. and make sure you, you will do it. goodluck!
2006-10-14 08:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you stay with this guy because? Kick him to the curb, as long as you let him have the best of worlds he'll take them.
2006-10-14 08:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like there the perfect couple dump him nd move on he sounds like an as***le your better of without him
2006-10-14 08:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he insists on still seeing her then you have to dump him.
2006-10-14 08:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by diane c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you got back togeather geees ,......it isnt worth the effort
2006-10-14 08:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋