i just hate it: why are we created in such a way that looks have to matter. why isn't it all about the inner beauty.
please don't write about the inner beauty taking the lead. Sure, you can immediately start to dislike someone even if they look great but appear arrogant, self-centred, etc...but the inner beauty unfortunately isn't enough all the time.
what are your thoughts on this
2006-10-14 01:02:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not criticizing people for putting an emphasis on appearance, i just want to know why it has to be like this, it's so sad when you think about it
2006-10-14 01:14:31 · update #1
IT TAKES LOTS OF TIME TO CHECK THE INNER BEAUTY OF THE PERSON. YOU HAVE TO GIVE REPLY SHORTLY AFTER
LOOKING SOMEONE. SO DECISION IS DEPEND ON HER OUTER LOOKS.
2006-10-14 01:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some people really look at the outer beauty and considers it as more important than the inner beauty.. i think it depends.. men as well as women look at the physical appearance first especially if its the first time however, we all know that looks can really be deceiving right? so i guess if your interested in someone because of the appearnce it doesn't have any difference, just be wise enough in following your instinct.
2006-10-14 01:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..i understand you at all..it's true people like when someone has got a gold heart and inner beauty..but such stories are more unusual and unusual..cause the people today only want some nice and skinny partners..dont worry!cause,if there really DOES excist the person who really DOES love you ,he/she will love you such waylooking you are!
2006-10-14 01:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every person is attracted to one certain type of individual..Example...my sister I've noticed goes for the blonde's average height, small frame...where I go for the big guys, tall, dark haired with facial hair....my point is that what I may thing is attractive you may not...I've had people tell me "why are you with him you could do so much better?' But they don't see what I see inside of him, his heart....But I do agree with you people put to much into appearance....
2006-10-14 01:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to character. Even a beautiful person can look terrible if they are of bad character.
2006-10-14 01:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by JAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
corz,...sight's your first point of contact, and that's why what you look like count's......it's not mean't to be a threat or anything.....it's merely a factual reality.
2006-10-14 01:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, i cant say more than; you are completely right
2006-10-14 01:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by Eagle Eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋