Have you cheated? Ever thought about it? Do you sincerely regret it, or getting caught? How often do you flirt heavily with others? Would you be pissed if your lover had the same conversations with people, that you have with people? (I believe you love them, sh*t happens, I just want truth about details) Thank you.
2006-10-14 00:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes i've cheated and there's no real justification for it. I will say though i cheat for whatever my mate lacks....It's messed up how things go sometimes, however you become vunerable to it after the communication barrier breaks down or the vision is detered. Yes i do regret it especially when the person doesn't deserve it...
2006-10-14 01:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by teach-1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated when I was much younger because it was all about me back then. It was fun & nothing was serious. I don't feel bad about it because I am not that little girl anymore and nor am I with that person. It was about having a good time and living only in the moment. I wasn't really in love.
Now I am a grown woman, I have different ideas on love. I am no longer selfish and believe that love is about giving oneself completely and by doing so, you receive. I have not nor would I cheat again. How do I know this? I have grown up. Any conversation that i have with anyone would be fine should my lover have the same with another, even if flirting is involved. Flirting can be harmless fun.
Basically, my infidelity was all about immaturity. I was 21 when it happened. In every relationship in the last 13 years I've been faithful & have no desire to do otherwise.
2006-10-14 08:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never cheated 'cause I don't want karma biting me in the rear, I'm not much of a flirt either... BUT I have thought of being with another guy, thinking what could the differences be, or how will the relationship progress, its more of a clinical analysis, comparison thingy, nothing romantic or mushy. Since I'm not much of a flirt and never have cheated, I don't want my man to cheat or flirt either, I'd be very, very pissed.
2006-10-14 07:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't ever cheated when I've had a partner, however I have flirted, but nothing physical. If you really love your partner there should be no need to cheat. After all long term relationships are based on trust and as you say switch the situation and that will soon tell you its not good.
2006-10-14 07:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated or flirted heavily when in a relationship.
A passing thought occasionally ( to be honest ) but nothing more.
2006-10-14 07:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Pat K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I met my wife I have cheated. since I lived with my wife I have not. That is 15 years faithful. I know if I am unfaithful and she finds out it will hurt her terribly. What sort of bloke would know that and do it anyway?
Good relationships are built on trust. If I did that I would ruin the trust and therefore severely damage the relationship. I would be shooting myself in the foot and hurting a very lovely person in the process.
2006-10-14 07:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my 1st husband (NOT proud of it) As a result, I ended up in the psych ward at my local community hospital. I have a flirtatious personality, but don't persue any relationships outside the one I have currently. I will tell a man (if I know him) if I think he is good-looking BUT I will put out the disclaimer that I am NOT hitting on him.
2006-10-14 07:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tazmanian Debi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love Someone then u would not want to upset or harm that person in any way..so u could not be interesed in anybody else because your heart,mind and body are madely and deeply crazy about that Someone.I am inlove and I know it.and any time i see him it's like i see him for the first time and i see this in his look too.we've met 3 years ago and i hope to feel the same till my last day on earth.I wouldn't ruin this beautiful thing for anything in the world.i know it worths fighting for and i know that together,we'll manage to preserve our love,over time.in conclusion..if u love,u respect..if u respect,u don't cheat!u protect your love and the ''thing'' u have built together.
2006-10-14 07:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by floricica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say that I have never cheated on my wife nor have I ever put myself in a situation that may lead to that. When you're married and you truly, deeply love that person, you will not put yourself in those situsations. Trust me...this is my 3rd marriage, I learned the hard way.
2006-10-14 07:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happened to you?
Cheating is bad and since I am married - I WANT TO LOVE 100% and nothing less. I hope I will NEVER cheat because it brings sadness and unhappiness in the long run.
2006-10-14 07:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋