hi i met this girl sam 6 months ago and started liking her abt 2 months ago..but recently i found out she has a boyfriend from my sister whos source was one of sams close friends..so i went and asked one of sams friends who is also a close friend of mine,does she have a bf or not,and she said no..so now i dont know who to believe..i also had my friend go and ask sam..what do u think of adam?and she said hes a gr8 and cool and all but i still dont feal attracted to him...wtf?!?! i have no idea what to do now..i was planning on telling her how i feal but now im in a sort of dilemma as to does she have a bf or not..im pretty sure sam knows i like her now from other peple but i need to get the balls to tell her myself..but all i have is her email,and we meet up like once a week with friends since were in different schools so i dont know how to play things from now on...I NEED SOME HELP!!!
im in my 5th year of college wheras she and her boyfriend are in their first..if that is of value
2006-10-14 00:10:52 · 8 answers · asked by adam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be a friend.
2006-10-14 00:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Barbwired 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u made a huge mistake in lettin her know ur interested while she could possibly have a bf.U should have waited patienly to assess the situation instead u blew in in haste and anxiety.Ask ur sis which particular person she got the info from and clear it with that person.U had some1 ask her about u, and she said she's not attracted, first thing i tell from personal experience is that u should never let ur interest known to every1 much b4 ur ready to propose it always makes things go wrong. Finally,i think u have no other option but to ask her out, but dont be disheartened if she says no, accept and friendship and talk friendly with her then on,that could yet keep u in contention, u never know when the apple falls. Look out 4 other girls also, carry on with other chicks it could make her more attracted to u too.
2006-10-14 07:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um., how about ask her out and hang out with her for a while.. she said 'she still dont feel attracted to you'.. so maybe, you have a chance..
if you're still confused with the boyfriend thing, then ask her personally..
work out your charms..
if that doesn't work, find another girl..
2006-10-14 07:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.brendon_urie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a bf that boes not mean that she love him.
so don't make late, just go and tell her about ur fillings
2006-10-14 07:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by oxygen_for_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth how you feel for her
and be patient to wait,but if you see she is happy with her boyfrient
just be happy for her, anyway theres a lot of ladies out there.
2006-10-14 07:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by sim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honast with her and stop acting like your in the second grade.
2006-10-14 07:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by jam1577 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead keep it up baby...
2006-10-14 07:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by mansi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another
2006-10-14 07:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Excellent E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋