Why wouldnt you be able to orgasm during sex, but you would be able to using your hand?

Question

Just a personal question...

Answer 1

90% between your ears 10% between your legs tell your partner what makes you feel good

Answer 2

Technique. You will orgasm while having sex if you change your technique. The key thing is to share with your lover what works for you. An honest woman who knows how to make herself orgasm will usually use her hand on her clitoris when you are penetrating her. For men, sometimes a vagina is too loose or juicy and a man needs more friction. He will then pull out and ask for a BJ. It is all down to whatever works best.

Answer 3

Two likely reasons.

First, physical stimuation.

You know where, how, and when to pleasure yourself better than someone else. Also, an errect penis does not stimulate a woman's clitoris (I assume you are female) particularly well in most intercourse positons -- including the missionary man on top positon.

Second, psychological. Your major sex organ is your brain. You may find that as you become closer to your partner, and trust them more , and feel more relaxed with them, they will be more likely to give you orgasims too -- particularly if you will help by guiding them to show them exactly what stimulation you like best.

Answer 4

that's quite bad, because orgasm during sex is more fulfilling than the one from the hand.

your partner may not stimulate the right areas during your intercourse so you're not having the climax you want.

but your hand knows where it is, so you better tell your partner and show him.

Answer 5

Because when you do it yourself, you know what you like...that way it's easier and is quicker for you to get off. With a partner...they're not a mind reader, they don't know what you like unless you tell them. So don't be shy...give them a hint...

Answer 6

um, you already asked about masturbating too much..maybe thats your problem. seriously. lay off the jerkin

Answer 7

I always do, and so does my partner always.