Why don't guys ever want a woman to know they hurt, or miss, or feel (in case of breakups) ?
2006-10-13 23:56:52 · 13 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it has to do something with ego and self-esteem. Guys usually are not that expressive about their feelings, emotions and sentiments. Their minds are conditioned in such a way that they think its manly to be carefree and indifferent about relationships. But deep within they get as much hurt as women.
2006-10-14 00:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rustic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have recently answered one of your previous questions, so I decided to see if I can help with this one too..... :-)
I don't think guys show emotions because they weren't necessarily brought up that way. I even remember my mum saying to my little brother "big boys don't cry".
Its not seen as the manly thing to do. I think a lot of guys also find it quite embarrassing because of the way society is about men with feelings and emotions.
Other than that, not meaning to be harsh, but some men might genuinely not have any feelings on the subject. You just never know because they never say anything!
2006-10-14 08:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by *Care Bear* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pride, Stupidity, Male Ego; they don't want it to be used against them after a breakup. This on the males part is very stupid as they really never know what they would have missed if they had taken the chance and spoken out frankly with their feelings.
2006-10-14 07:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by mhmd_badran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they like to keep there emotion inside and not express it as women,,,,
There goal is to stop caring so it wont hurt ,,,therefore they wont be happy with a sad reminder of there previous relation ship
2006-10-14 07:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by ya_3een 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase:
I think Emotion is the biggest positive point for a girl, and biggest negative point for guys. Guys are meant to be strong and bold, and girls always known for beauty and politeness..
2006-10-14 07:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Best Answer Provider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heard of Boys dont cry, its the same v guys tend to avoid showing our sad emotions.Thats the truth.
2006-10-14 07:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wrong
Guys are always want to know the fillings of a woman but women can not believe the men.
2006-10-14 07:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by oxygen_for_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys dont care
2006-10-14 12:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we see it as a sign of weakness. in "todays society" men are supposed to be strong and put their problems behind them
2006-10-14 07:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by poony!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's our nature, how we are built....to be strong and act strong in times of trouble, to put on a brave face,act tough.... some say its a form of weakness.....kinda like a pansy......
for example, all these people fighting overseas....you think they have time to be acting like pansies? no.
2006-10-14 08:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by xepov 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋