i am still in love with the girl i want to be over. each time i talk to her i almost feel compulsed to tell her that i feel this way but i cant because if i do i know that it will cause a problem. she has a b/f i want her to be happy and i cant get her out of my head and its driving me to the point where i almost feel as though i have to go away so i cant hurt her and i want to let go but cant. and it makes me depressed thinking about her so often, i know i'm inlove with her but she never ever will love me and i can deal with that so what should i do??
2006-10-13 23:50:52 · 8 answers · asked by poony!!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you need to go out with people to get your mind off her. This way you will meet new girls and find the one you're meant to be with. It will be hard for a little while, but slowly you will find yourself thinking less and less about this other girl.
Good luck with everything.
2006-10-13 23:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Funny Bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem with a guy that I've loved for years..and when it ended, I felt like the pain would never end. It hasnt totally ended yet, but it Has gotten easier. And trust me, it will get easier. And if you really want her back, but dont want to hurt her current relationship all you can really do is be there and be a good friend to her and hope that they break up..just dont be the reason they break up. And if they end up staying together, I know it will be hard and it will hurt for a while but things will get easier. Good Luck :)
2006-10-14 06:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends, when ever her need a guy for help you will be there . it like a guardian angel but on one condition, you must control yourself , you will first be her friends and when you have the chance get to know her bf so that he don suspect you r one of the competitor. you will get the chance to know her more and you will know when you get the move ....
2006-10-14 06:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel her by writing a note to her if she says something that u do not like then u go on with u're live
2006-10-14 09:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"each time i talk to her" is the problem. you have to stop talking to her to get over her. you have to seperate yourself from her.
2006-10-14 06:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste ur time, if she were to come to you, she will, till than hunt for others as well, or what face will you show in hell !
2006-10-14 06:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by priyankji 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to let go and go find other people
2006-10-14 06:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by whats_up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO WHAT EVER WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY!!
2006-10-14 06:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋