Havent had a relationship in 4 years, girlfriend broke up with me and then died. Relatively attractive 22 yr old
2006-10-13 23:41:01 · 35 answers · asked by Financial Guru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you masturbate so much that you never make it to work or classes, your apartment is filthy and your clothes all needed washing six wearings ago then you are probably masturbating too much. Otherwise, if you are a normal, healthy person, then masturbation, whether once a week or twice a day, is perfectly normal and healthy. So stop wasting time worrying about it and get out there and make some friends and date some people and enjoy life.
2006-10-14 12:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is fine and don't feel guilty about it. It is better than drinking too much or taking drugs. But you should face up to you problems and get out there and live life. When you are happy, confident and living life to the fullest, you will meet a nice woman and be able to have a new relationship. But even in relationships, people masturbate. Think about it, even your wife/girlfriend can't always be there for sex since they also have a job. It is better than cheating.
2006-10-14 00:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bob M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You lack love from a significate other, I feel that although you have lost your GF, not only through her leaving you but deah you now need to try and move on, find a nice, caring girl and take it from there.
Hopefully this is able to solve this, although theres not really anything wrong with it at all....
Sorry to hear about the death of your ex girlfriend but I wish you the best of luck.
Mitch
2006-10-13 23:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you want sex and you haven't got a current gf -simple
also I guess you are not busy with other things
Ironically studies indicate that if you masturbate less you have a higher chance of getting a gf! (incredible!)
Put your effort into weights and getting a good job or doing better in your current job.
I am not saying don't masturbate, but try to divert your attention into something more productive in the long term
2006-10-13 23:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by angle_of_deat_69 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You just answered your own question.. you masturbate coz you haven't had a girl in 4 years. Just coz you don't have a chick doesn't mean you can't be horny. You gotta do something to release the tension.
2006-10-13 23:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because you have a great imagination and there's nothing wrong with masturbation everyone does it, try switching hands it's like a stranger
2006-10-13 23:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u answered your question.you just have a high sex drive. you are 22 you are at peak sexuality.and you had a woman who you had regular sex with and u guys broke up.u are waiting for the right one to get with. u dont want to screw any one.you are normal.
2006-10-13 23:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by rasheda c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because your 22 and you CAN. Theres nothing whong with it-go for it.
2006-10-14 00:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Freakgirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably for the same reason most people do; because it feels good. I think it should be done a lot when you're single, I know I'm a better person when I'm not sexually frustrated.
2006-10-13 23:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. What you need to do is get out more with your mates and hang and do what guys would normally do. It doesn't mean you'll be replacing her but simply getting your life together and living it, just like how she would want you to
2006-10-13 23:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋