I am a 32 year old man who wants to live life casually. I mean I donot want to come out of my world. I had a serious crush ten years back. pampered being the youngest in the family. Now, time and again I come across women but they became my friends and not girl friend. They got married. Is it that I am projecting myself as a looser, casual person or is it that the right person is not coming?
2006-10-13 23:11:04 · 9 answers · asked by shwetank s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you choose to be their best friend that is your choice, pls don think you are looser because you become your friends's best friend not be her bf. you must not confuse yourself. you may found the girl you want but she might not b the girl you want to live with. yes they r married so let be it. b friends , you will soon find a girl who suit you more any one else.
single life is not painful or suffer, it came when your friend and realtive said 'hey , bob you should find someone to settle down' , if you think they r right , you will think like them and you will soon find yourself alone and think differently, pls enjoy your life. get tonkow some one when you think you have a shot. man r the only animal who r willing to take chances. you can do it .dude . keep it up.
2006-10-13 23:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it because you are projecting yourself as a looser, casual person and now that you know that the cause do the right thing , do the opposite and be serious and let the woman you like what you want and stop being a looser, casual person or you will end up a loser and lonely person in the old and gray age of your life and it will come sooner than you think!!
2006-10-13 23:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like your sort of in a rut. Honestly I am sort of in the same boat, wondering if im ever going to find another girl. My girl broke up with me and then died. RIght now im thinking wow that happened 4 years ago and I still havent moved on all the way. I havent dated since then, long time ago I guess. But im only 22.
Maybe you could portray more of a sense of aggressiveness as well as confidence. Tell them how you feel Good luck
2006-10-13 23:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Financial Guru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hello..ask ur friend/s what kinda impression do u project..then you will know and yes..please get out of ur own sweet world and get going!!...the right person will be round the corner and u dont wanna prooject ur bad self eh?
2006-10-13 23:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by v v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a girlfriend ask her out. Because if you don't we just think you want to be friends. And we start looking somewhere else.
2006-10-13 23:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Toya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, you are just comfortable keeping your own hours and watching football whenever you want without the bitching.
2006-10-13 23:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u just didnt realise that u are not putting any efforts in courting girls.
2006-10-13 23:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by miserable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right person wil come. be patient
2006-10-13 23:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up
2006-10-13 23:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Excellent E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋