he left m e after 2 years being withhim.in the past i found out he talked to other chicks and even added them to yahoo messenger..now he didnt change his password so i logged on due to me tryin to add him he denied me.so i seen friend request from a girl he said he talked to once behind my back why is he hurting me? he knows i have password why would he do this he broke my heart so bad im tryin to move on..i offline messaged him please stop hurtin me thathe done enough damage ,im so hurt even more
2006-10-13 23:10:59 · 4 answers · asked by cbutterflyc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wrote him a offline message sayin he ishurtin me and please stop..just change name and move on etc..as i will
2006-10-13 23:48:24 · update #1
i moved on but it hurts its only been 3 weeks
2006-10-13 23:52:52 · update #2
just leave it alone. you're hurting yourself, it's not just him. if you're gonna move on, then get goin. there's no point in hurting yourself further by checking his e-mail or whatever. if he was chatting with other girls, so what, it was just chatting, and chatting is just a way of passing the time anyway. if he was messing around on you, he was messing around on you because he's a jerk. don't waste your time wondering "why did he do this, why did he do that?" etc. it's too easy to blame yourself for things that weren't your fault.
2006-10-13 23:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probly want him to be happy! So, think about it this way, if he is happier with someone else, than, would you really want him to be unhappy, so that you can be happy?
Invite some friends over, and watch some chick flicks. Get fun, upbeat movies!!!
Make some brownies, or a cake! Or cookies, or pudding...yummy4your tummy!
Get some money, and get a new haircut that is fun & flirty, and invest in some new makeup! If you usually wear red, try coral!
Grab a good book, and some jelly beans (any candy/food works) and just get lost in the book
Spend a day with other single friends and spend the night rating cute (single) guys! Find a new crush! You never know!
Realize that all hope isn't lost, he may REALLy have a crush on you, or maybe he will break up with his current girlfriend! Throw a party.
Call your friends!
Chocolate is good...
You have got to stay optimistic!!! ^_^
I really think you shoudl try and let go of this guy because you're the one getting hurt the most!!!
2006-10-14 06:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by saiyuki c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change is the nature of life unless it come to the heart. You feel, he did not love you, just played with u. You too entertain yourself unless you find a real love. Go with time
2006-10-14 06:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he's an asshole! u should just get over him gurl & have sum fun! forget about this loser... hes not worth it! TRUST ME! let his *** go and if he loves u he'll come crawling back! if not - then the hell with him! u can find sum1 better!
2006-10-14 06:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋