I am a 40 year old single woman and I'm not into clubbing anymore; I have many hobbies but most of them are very female orientated e.g. yoga. I also go to the gym and swimming but I have not managed to find anyone. Has anyone got any ideas?
2006-10-13 23:04:17 · 20 answers · asked by Lavenderrose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow!!
There are some great ideas here! Keep em rolling!
2006-10-14 01:20:41 · update #1
Rock or wall climbing (lot's of clubs around if you look for them). Lots of healthy fit men there. (and some unhelathy unfit ones like me as well).
2006-10-13 23:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by mittobridges@btinternet.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tennis is fairly social but there is generally an excess of (married) women at most clubs.
Golf is a bit cliquish, bridge and bowls players' average age is >60.
Art classes are a possibility; if you cannot draw, you could display your wares by offering to model for the class.
Dance classes come to mind but having two left feet, I have no knowledge of the age groups and sex mixes at the different styles of dance.
As trips to the gym and yoga suggest that you have a reasonable body, there must be a barrier that has prevented you from finding a decent chap. It is possible that you have scared off some gentlemen by being immediately forthcoming with details of your marital status?
2006-10-13 23:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Clive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, I got a very good idea for you. As you like swimming learn to scuba dive, it is a sport that is very male dominated and they are very fit an mostly 35-50 sort of age range. There will be a centre somewhere in your area, but if you have to travel a bit don't forget so do the men, chances are you will meet men there from your area anyway. Although I am happily not single, I scuba dive on a regular basis and there is always a lot of nice fit chaps on the dives that are mostly single.
2006-10-13 23:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband says lap dancing, but I would suggest watching rugby with a friend and frequenting a rugby club always lots of talent there. Maybe you should try sports like squash or badmington they always have a good social scene.
2006-10-13 23:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go to the super market check out the ''meals for one aisle''. Any man down there is bound to be single. Accidently bump into the good looking one, works every time!
On a more serious note though, you will find someone hun, when your not looking for it! x
2006-10-13 23:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Totty D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try building a model railway, then put an ad in your local paper asking for volunteers to help - you'll be inundated!
2006-10-13 23:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That brazilian martial art/dance thing that I cant spell... caporer (???) there was a drum and base tune with the same name a few years back. Loads of blokes and women do it, its a bit poncy....
2006-10-14 03:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by garfet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a local line dancing group lots of men go to those or go on a short corse for house maintanance/plumbing/car maintanance etc... at your local adult learning centre.
2006-10-13 23:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by carla s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are online dating clubs....
even christian BigChurch.com
have fun and enjoy being single....right when you think you could get used to it someone will come along and being single, lonely will be nothing but the past
2006-10-13 23:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dance: line, ballroom...
RC airplanes
Adult classes at a local college
2006-10-13 23:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋