my husband wokes i what to but he said no i have a lot with the kids.but ever time i need $$$$$$$$$$ he says i need to get a job so i look for one he gets mad or when i need cigarettes he says i smok to much if im goint to keep that up i need a job so i look he get up sit and said he will get 2 or 3 jobs.that its hes job to see to us not me see to him.im going craz do i or do i not get a job we have been tog /15yr
2006-10-13 22:26:30 · 11 answers · asked by kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your husband is worried that he can't provide for all your wants. your needs perhaps and the more it bothers you the more troubled he will become because to him as well as allot of men its strikes to the core of our inner selves to take care of those we love and belong to.
2006-10-13 23:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are the children if cash is tight you should look for work but just part time to start with to get your own poket money and selfesteem. he is very mixed up you must show him you have rights to.
being a house wife and mum of four is a full time Job in itself but if all the children are in school look for some thing you would like to do Good Luck I have 3 fully grown children but \they are still my children
2006-10-14 05:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sam's 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While he's acting like a fool, I'd be putting in applications. I don't have the time or patience to listen to someone's chronic whining and that would be enough to make me want to get a job.
2006-10-14 07:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to get off your lazy butts and get JOBS...NOT 1 of you both of you. How on earth can you afford cigerrettes...at $37.00 a carton. MY GOD...you both have priorities in the wrong area.
You're a mother of 4.....probably living off the old Government Welfare Check and Food Stamp subsidies....and yet....hmmm somehow you have the $$$$ for a computer and internet access.....What's wrong with that picture folks?
Quit trying to pull the wool over all of the people on here....Your trying to get ATTENTION....and the POOR ME ROUTINE...aint' cutting it in my opinion!
2006-10-14 07:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be smoking around 4 kids. It's not his job to keep you in cigarettes.
2006-10-14 05:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Barbwired 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need job for real.
2006-10-14 05:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by SANDRA C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an @ss!
has he always been like this or something upsetting him now?
u need a relative or friend to talk with
2006-10-14 05:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go back to school so you CAN get a job
2006-10-14 05:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sweetheart you need to learn english in order to get a job, but if i were you i would be looking for work in an asian restraunt.
2006-10-14 05:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
school
2006-10-14 08:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by Profe....llikr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋